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January 1st, 2011, 07:37 AM
So it's been a long time since I've been online. Blah blah blah. We moved whatever. BUT, I have a new step-family. I went from being an only child, to having five step-sibling. Big change.
But anyways, my older step brother is all about partying and living a chilled life. One thing that bothers me about this: His perspective on relationships and stuff. I feel like the odd man out in the family because I take relationships with girls VERY seriously (maybe too much? idk). He's not the only one, it seems like everyone gets into a "relationship" and "falls in love" and shit with a new person every few months. I have a hard time comprehending this. It's like people play it like a game, "oh that person isn't good enough, so I'll find someone else." How can they say they love someone on the phone, the next day: They break up. The cycle repeats.
MY PERSPECTIVE: Relationships are very rare, amazing, and should be cherished. Not treated like a game. And it seems like everyone around plays it like a game. Can't really appreciate it for what it is, and make it work. So in having that point of view, I feel sort of outcasted from the people around here. I've found no one that's interested in stuff other then sex. So I'm always wondering if I'll be the one staring into space while everyone has someone else to accompany them.
Am I the only one that see's things that way? Because I CAN'T find anyone that shares the same opinion as I do.
But anyways, my older step brother is all about partying and living a chilled life. One thing that bothers me about this: His perspective on relationships and stuff. I feel like the odd man out in the family because I take relationships with girls VERY seriously (maybe too much? idk). He's not the only one, it seems like everyone gets into a "relationship" and "falls in love" and shit with a new person every few months. I have a hard time comprehending this. It's like people play it like a game, "oh that person isn't good enough, so I'll find someone else." How can they say they love someone on the phone, the next day: They break up. The cycle repeats.
MY PERSPECTIVE: Relationships are very rare, amazing, and should be cherished. Not treated like a game. And it seems like everyone around plays it like a game. Can't really appreciate it for what it is, and make it work. So in having that point of view, I feel sort of outcasted from the people around here. I've found no one that's interested in stuff other then sex. So I'm always wondering if I'll be the one staring into space while everyone has someone else to accompany them.
Am I the only one that see's things that way? Because I CAN'T find anyone that shares the same opinion as I do.