Two Best Friends

[Firemisson]

So me and my best friend (but we call each other brothers) say 'I love you' to each other a lot. Were both Straight and all and hes got a gf.
I was just wondering if this is normal?

[Cristiann123]

If girls can do it with eachother, and they're straight, of course it's normal for guys to do it! They just don't feel like doing it, cause then they could feel emasculated.

[Ender]

I have a friend like that, im gay, he's straight. He knows i dont like him like that, and its no one elses business.

So yeah, id say its normal.

[nick]

Its fine, you love your dad I expect, doesnt mean you want to have sex with him. Its the same, not all love is sexual.

[Spock]

all my friends are str8 but we have fun we hug and say love u because we all r extremly close and open to one one another and have fun because we no we r no gay and have fun with it.

[MoveAlong]

This has more to do with sexuality than puberty, so:

Puberty for Boys >>> Teen Sexuality

[Nancy Boy]

Hav you ever heard of the movie 'I Love You, Man'?? xD of course. It's normal. :3

[smitty35]

ya it is, because you are like brothers, and you are that close.

[Fourth Dimension]

its totally 100% normal

[cantwebefriends]

Same with me im gay though and my best friend for 8 years and i are like brothers! He always jokes with m saying i love you bro and stuff may just be a show of affection or a bromance lol just dont over think it.

[Fourth Dimension]

Same with me im gay though and my best friend for 8 years and i are like brothers! He always jokes with m saying i love you bro and stuff may just be a show of affection or a bromance lol just dont over think it.
Exactly my best friend ive known for 15 years and we are like that ironically hes gay im bi haha but nothing wrong with showing affection for your guy friends you dont have to be blood to be family and my bff is defiantly my brother just as his sister is my older sister and i even call his mom mom lol

[ccrunner]

Totally

[paranoid1]

well, i'm not gonna tell you it's normal because i question it myself, but i will tell you that my friend and i consider eachother brothers, and we say i love you at least twice a day. whenever we're hanging out we hug eachother and get affectionate, and we're both straight. so i'm gonna say you're not the only one :)

[Donkey]

love can be a lot more than just romantic, you learn that with time.

[SwimTech]

Yes, its completely normal...most people will just think its a joke. If you guys are that close, who cares? lol

[tmhfoto]

i've been in this same situation only that my best friend took is as 100% gay and it just pissed me off, and tried explainin' it, i just gave up

[chris_96]

kind of some would see it as feminine

[tyler007]

Yea i think its great, and i do it with my best freind too, and i mean it. Let other ppl think what they want too. And him or you having a gf is nice and all, but it should not make that much of a difference. IT might be easier for you to say and mean it and to have it not sound gay when either of you has a gf..

[DigBick]

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[ryan lad]

I do with few of my mates!!

[Sebastian Michaelis]

certianly

[ITSGUCCITIME]

Yes it is

[greekboy]

I say this often as well so hopefully it is normal or we can just we weird together. Either way I'm not going to stop doing it.

[Voodoo]

Hell, I do it a lot. We do it as a inside joke though.

[Hokage]

Yep it's normal I do it to 6 of my close male friends.

[Orpheus]

Most guys dont do it but your lucky to have such a good friend. It's cool.

[canyon]

So me and my best friend (but we call each other brothers) say 'I love you' to each other a lot. Were both Straight and all and hes got a gf.
I was just wondering if this is normal?

Sure, why wouldn't it be normal? If you're really close, there's nothing wrong with joking around like that.

[Starlight Blaze]

well I think its normal I do it with one of my friends hes like my lil bro

[Allbutanillusion]

[QUOTE=Cristiann123;1130330]If girls can do it with eachother, and they're straight, of course it's normal for guys to do it! They just don't feel like doing it, cause then they could feel emasculated.[/QUOTE


I agree with this completely. Society kind of has double standards:rolleyes: when it comes to this sort of thing. Girls bonding is accepted but guys bonding like this is kind of Taboo Which does annoy me somewhat.

But , you are lucky to have a friend like that, don't let what other people say bother you . And don't let the homophobes:P change anything about what you and your friend have. And that is coming from a straight guy:cool:

[prob1996]

very normal and your lucky that you have a close friend like that.

[Buckhunter]

So me and my best friend (but we call each other brothers) say 'I love you' to each other a lot. Were both Straight and all and hes got a gf.
I was just wondering if this is normal?

me and my best friend do the exact same thing, even though i'm a little curious

[Abigballofdust]

I'm gay but I see my friends as brothers and could never think of a relationship with them and we hug each other when we meet, or put an arm over each other's shoulders or say 'I love you' when we help each other...And that's perfectly normal.
Call it a bromance (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bromance).

[Hope4u]

nothing wrong with it.....no one ever questions if two girls say it to each other.

[Drew7]

that's what she said.
samesies

[Solo Rider]

So me and my best friend (but we call each other brothers) say 'I love you' to each other a lot. Were both Straight and all and hes got a gf.
I was just wondering if this is normal?

Love ya man!

Oh look am i normal?
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[Angel Androgynous]

Nothing wrong with a little bromance. :) <3


I don't get it, why don't people question when girls do it? :c

[Solo Rider]

Nothing wrong with a little bromance. :) <3


I don't get it, why don't people question when girls do it? :c

^ ya your right! Why don't they :/

[Voldemort]

its TOTALLY normal, i always say that 2 my best friends n friends but not 2 often.

[poocsl]

I'm gay and I say I love you to my two best friends who are females. Does that mean I want to have sex with them? No.

[Buckhunter]

Nothing wrong with a little bromance. :) <3


I don't get it, why don't people question when girls do it? :c

Thank you! someone understands!

[Angel Androgynous]

I think it is because of this:

Males back then were so obsessed with power and trying to show off how they were better decided that a close bond with other males is out of the question and that it's "gay" or whatever and that showing emotion is for "ladies." And you know what? That stuck! Guys now are stuck trying to battle what they grew up with, and trying to show emotion but are afraid of being labeled! :c It is really unfortunate.
Just like way back when, a woman was in the kitchen, making dinner, listening to her husband, and taking care of children. And if a woman even seems remotely voyeuristic, she was labeled a "nymphomaniac." That is why girls are much less open about porn/masturbation/sexual desire. Time to change things a little, yeah? (:

[Solo Rider]

I think it is because of this:

Males back then were so obsessed with power and trying to show off how they were better decided that a close bond with other males is out of the question and that it's "gay" or whatever and that showing emotion is for "ladies." And you know what? That stuck! Guys now are stuck trying to battle what they grew up with, and trying to show emotion but are afraid of being labeled! :c It is really unfortunate.
Just like way back when, a woman was in the kitchen, making dinner, listening to her husband, and taking care of children. And if a woman even seems remotely voyeuristic, she was labeled a "nymphomaniac." That is why girls are much less open about porn/masturbation/sexual desire. Time to change things a little, yeah? (:

HOLY SHIT!!! You nailed that perfect :o
I thought the same thing...

[Angel Androgynous]

Haha ^_^ I just hope that society changes! (:
Let the boys have their bromance
let the girls have their freedom of sexuality without being labeled a whore!

[DoctorWho]

Ya dude its fine I like saying it at random to my friend to be funny and Im straight

[cdunn]

yeah its normal to experiment i think