Necroxfiendx07
December 31st, 2010, 02:29 PM
Ok so if anyone remembers me, i posted a string of topics explaining i wanted to get my ex back. So, Bout 4 or 5 days ago me and cari got back together. I finally snapped at her and she finally got the clue that i learned from my mistakes and deserved another chance. So that night i said "so are we official now?" and she said "well all i gotta do now is break up with matt (her kind-of boyfriend)". And i said "well we can start early :)" and she goes "are you sure youre ok with that?" and i said "yes, so long as you call him asap". Since then shes been working 12 hour days and hes up in pennsylvania for the holidays, so she hasnt gotten around to it yet. (which she later on feels wrong for, and may have contributed to her breaking up with me again) Nevertheless, we are together finally. Everything is perfect. We are acting as if we never broke up to begin with. Last night she gives me a call. She said her dad had a long talk with her. He threatened her if he ever saw me and her together again. He demanded that she cuts contact with me too. (which makes sense cause he hates me. A couple nights ago i was on the phone with cari and she told her mom she was talking to me. Her mom was happy and told the dad, who ended up flipping). Anyways, he goes on and on about how he thinks she has no time for a relationship now that shes working so much so she wouldnt be able to see me. anyways. Of course i knew what was coming next. She broke up with me again. She asked me to please understamd the best i can, said its hard for a daughter when their dads are like that. She apologized for hurting me, for not letting me move on. Then her dad took her phone so we had to cut it short. It ended with "goodbye; i love you" from each of us. This time i know shes honest cause i can hear her parents on the phone and i knew how her dad felt about me. So now im back to square one. Its too early to tell, but for all i know she could be ignoring me again, or if not, her dad still has her phone. Either way, im in limbo. I dont know what to do. I refuse to let it end like this. Do you think if this truly is the reason that it has to end, then me and cari will get back together eventually? (also keep in mind the whole matt thing. She told me she felt wrong about it, so one can assume that also played a role in her decision, even though shes still gonna end it with him). Regardless though, is there a chance for us again? If so, how do i manage to get that?
**update 1/5/10**
well, we last spoke on new years eve. She told me that things in her life are complicated, that life is complicated. She said she does love me, its just that life is moving too fast for her, that her dad is right. She said she needs a fresh new start, something new. She told me again that there is a chance for us on the future, and she followed with "At least i hope there is, lol". We haven't spoke since then. And it feels like its getting harder and harder each day trying NOT to contact her. She also mentioned that she doesnt think she can be happy with someone who's hurt her so much. She said she likes to think she can, but sh doesnt know. But admits that before her dad interfered it was going better. Now i really dont know what to do, because i still want this girl believe it or not. And if what shes saying is true about me and her in the future, what should i do? Let her come to me?
**update 1/5/10**
well, we last spoke on new years eve. She told me that things in her life are complicated, that life is complicated. She said she does love me, its just that life is moving too fast for her, that her dad is right. She said she needs a fresh new start, something new. She told me again that there is a chance for us on the future, and she followed with "At least i hope there is, lol". We haven't spoke since then. And it feels like its getting harder and harder each day trying NOT to contact her. She also mentioned that she doesnt think she can be happy with someone who's hurt her so much. She said she likes to think she can, but sh doesnt know. But admits that before her dad interfered it was going better. Now i really dont know what to do, because i still want this girl believe it or not. And if what shes saying is true about me and her in the future, what should i do? Let her come to me?