Mom and Stepdad

[lipstick_kisses23]

a couple minutes ago I wanted to talk to my mom and dad about a situation that happened between me my mom and my boyfriend. I didn't want to argue and I didn't want my mom raising her voice at me so I brought it up calmly. I'm not the kinda girl to yell and cuss at her parents cause that's just not what kids should do so i thought it'd be the best approach. It all ended in my stepdad telling me that he now knows why my mom says her kids don't ever have her back, and then they continued to talk about me while i was in the next room with the door open... my feelings are really hurt and I'd really like someone to talk to because i can't stop crying. My boyfriend is really pissed at me and I feel like I have no one. I just don't know what to do. I love my mom a lot but they made me realize what a rotten daughter I am and i don't deserve a mom like her...... idk what to think anymore.

[jcfla9]

I read this at a bad time. My back is kiling me so I'm hitting the hay. If you need anything at all, let me know. I have gone through what you're going through and every once in a while a similar situation pops up like this at my house. I've been kicked out, cussed at, screamed at, told that I'm dirt, called a shitty son, you name it I've been through it. Don't hesitate to pm me or something

[Fruit_Tart.]

don't ever think of yourself as that kind of person! maybe it's your parents that don't deserve you! you were trying to act calm and have a talk with your mom and from what i understand she and your dad changed it around and made you feel horrible. i'm sure you deserve "better" parents or at least some kind of better treatment from your mom and dad. i'm sure your not a rotton daughter and don't ever think of yourself that way. try to keep your mind off of what happened and try to keep your chin up. :] cheer up, hopefully it'll rub off and your parents will, too. ^_^

[Wicked_Syn]

I'm not good in situations like this, but you can't be a rotten daughter, and its the other way around, your mom is not aware of how mature you are for not yelling at her...most parents would love for their kids to have that type of respect from their kid.

[Fruit_Tart.]

I'm not good in situations like this, but you can't be a rotten daughter, and its the other way around, your mom is not aware of how mature you are for not yelling at her...most parents would love for their kids to have that type of respect from their kid.
i agree with him^
but it's hard for parents to realize that we're trying hard to respect them and be mature.

[lipstick_kisses23]

thank you guys <3, I hope today will be better since it's new years. I'm still not sure what to do about my boyfriend but I'm just gonna try and talk to him. He's really the reason my parents and I are in this whole mess. I was trying to defend him from a situation that had gotten blown up way big for no reason. He was trying to apologize to my mom for something and she took it the wrong way.

[Daniel_]

First of all your not rotten at all, theres nothing wrong with talking to your parents about something that happened in the past.

It sounds to me like your step dad over reacted, or is just a mean person. Has he ever done something like this before?

Maybe you should try talking to your mother about the issue when your step dad is out of the house.

[lipstick_kisses23]

No he's never done anything like that before, that's why it surprised me so much. Today everything is better just cause i haven't brought anything up and I am sooooo NOT going to >.<. I just hope everything fixes itself soon =[

[Daniel_]

No he's never done anything like that before, that's why it surprised me so much. Today everything is better just cause i haven't brought anything up and I am sooooo NOT going to >.<. I just hope everything fixes itself soon =[

Well thats good.

It's possible maybe your mom and step dad were discussing something before you spoke to your mother, and he felt you were interrupting them. However, it's just a guess.

It's probably best to just forget about it, unless it continues to happen. Then, it could develop into a serious problem in which you should seek help with, whether that be from your mother or elsewhere.