Im just too shy :(

[RandomUsername]

I wish i could just ask someone out. im too shy, when the times comes and im talking to the person i start worrying about the person saying no, everybody talking about it if the person says no, what i do if the person say yes, i wonder if the person notices you stumbling on words, why i cant just get over being shy, if i should even be doing this or if im to young. any tips?

[spfreak]

The only tip I can give you is to just do it. Get over your nervousness. We're all people and we all get nervous when asking someone out, but it's something we all do sometime or another. Be yourself, and then you'll eventually feel comfortable. Best of luck!

[Socio]

Yeah i'm like you, i am too shy to do anything. I don't even end up talking to anybody because i'm even too shy to start a conversation with a girl. But here i am, 18 and never even kissed a girl or anything. So i'm not really in a position to give advice, but like the above person i guess just go for it and ask. Because if she says no, then you just back to where you were. Good luck

[Lmaodude]

Just go for it. I was nervous about asking this girl out that i liked but when i did, it felt great and the fact that she said yes made it better. Best of luck bro :D

[HAWAiiAN 808]

you got nothing to be shy of. If you really like this person, and they see you have feelings for them, the worst answer they could say is no. But you wont know what their answer is until you really ask them. When i was about 8, i was really shy and timid. But when i was around 12 or 13, i went with my cousin to the mall and i seen him just getting numbers left and right from random girls which he was only talking to for less than 5 minutes. After that day, i finally decided to step up and stop being so shy. Now, i can go anywhere i want without having to be shy if my dream girl is standing right next to me. You just gotta step outside of your comfort zone for a little bit to experience your life a little bit better.

[Daniel_]

You can't worry about it. If she says no, then so what? It's not the end of the world, just keep trying until you find the right person.

[affablyeaseful]

Being shy is tough, I was for a long time. The way I broke out of it was to look at conversations in a different way. When you're meeting people for the first time especially, there's so much to be gained from engaging in conversation, like an acquaintance, broader social groups, a new friend, maybe even a boyfriend/girlfriend! The best way to go about it is to just start by talking about things you think they would be interested in. Ask them about themselves a lot, because people love to talk about themselves!

As far as rejection goes, it is hard to deal with. But that person is missing out on you if they reject you. Life is just too short to not take opportunities like that. If you are rejected it might hurt for a while, but there is so much to gain that the risk of being rejected is totally worth it. I would suggest just going for it and putting your best foot forward! Don't worry about what other people will think or say either, it's none of their business in the first place