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Rosewood
December 30th, 2010, 08:16 PM
Hey,
Basically I have somehow landed my dream girl, and whenever we kiss I get a full hard on and in the school uniform boners show so clearly, how can I not get turned on so easy??

Thanks :)

embers
December 30th, 2010, 08:19 PM
Well, I'm guessing try and think of someone/something that turns you off, but personally I'd feel guilty if I had a girlfriend and was kissing her thinking of someone like Boris Johnson. It's kinda weird.

Meh, it may not work, but you might as well give it a go eh? (:

UnknownError
December 30th, 2010, 08:22 PM
Wear breifs. :3

nick
December 30th, 2010, 08:23 PM
Its nature, there's not much you can do about it. If you wear boxers try switching to briefs, they will hide it better. If you might get teased for wearing briefs wear them under the boxers. Anyway she should take it as a compliment if she notices, it would be more of a worry if you didnt get a boner.

Rosewood
December 30th, 2010, 08:41 PM
Hah, I shall have to try thinking of good old Boris :P

and yeah I wear breifs, it's a problem really because we're always around friends, if we're alone she doesn't mind, it's just the embarrassment I get from having a boner in front of friends :/

ccrunner
December 30th, 2010, 10:00 PM
It's called puberty wear some tight undies Or compression shorts

willrod
December 30th, 2010, 10:54 PM
I know it's embarrassing, but have your friends ever said anything about it? I'm sure they really don't notice it, or if they do, they probably care less, as it most likely has happened to them at some point too. It's kind of hard to keep from getting hard when you're that turned on to someone- the only thing I can really think of is to maybe wear a long sweater or a coat and sort of hide it- that's what I do if it happens to me lol.

smitty35
December 30th, 2010, 11:03 PM
one thing you can do is: when u kiss here at school you can pretend she is an old lady.

imma
December 30th, 2010, 11:14 PM
wear tight underwear

Donkey
December 31st, 2010, 05:52 AM
I would usually say "think of something disgusting," but that might not be so pleasant when kissing your girlfriend. I might also say "put your hands in your pockets," but that wouldn't look too good while kissing someone. Really just kiss somewhere where others won't be looking, people don't want to see it anyway.

tyler007
December 31st, 2010, 12:44 PM
Its just what happens nothing to do about it, and alot less ppl notice your boner/hard on than you think. (How many kids do you see with a full hard on, in uniform at school?)
You can wear some compression short too, or boxers over your briefs, if you wanted. That might help. But i also think the more you kiss her, the less likey you will get a full hard on all the time.

Oby.
December 31st, 2010, 01:37 PM
Well, I'm guessing try and think of someone/something that turns you off, but personally I'd feel guilty if I had a girlfriend and was kissing her thinking of someone like Boris Johnson. It's kinda weird.

Meh, it may not work, but you might as well give it a go eh? (:


It's all about Betty White man.

Bluesman
December 31st, 2010, 02:34 PM
Well if she turns you on then its kind of inevitable... just explain to her that it doesn't mean you're a pervert of anything, it's just your natural reaction and you can't help it.

cantwebefriends
December 31st, 2010, 07:29 PM
First off means ur reallly into her second try holding off the more intimate stuff to a private place and thirdly over time or doin it it will stop happening so fast

CaliKiDD
December 31st, 2010, 10:11 PM
it really easy just think of something else like hotdogs i got my dream girl too

Cristiann123
January 1st, 2011, 04:46 AM
Best solution? Wear jockstraps, or tight briefs. They conceal it fully

Nancy Boy
January 1st, 2011, 06:10 AM
Hehehe. What everybody else says :3

Daniel_
January 1st, 2011, 08:40 AM
Wear a cup or briefs.

Or you can just shove that bad boy under your belt.

Trevoooor
January 1st, 2011, 02:58 PM
Something like that is pretty hard to control. But, these people above me know what they're talking about.

sounddude
January 1st, 2011, 03:04 PM
Hey,
Basically I have somehow landed my dream girl, and whenever we kiss I get a full hard on and in the school uniform boners show so clearly, how can I not get turned on so easy??

Thanks :)

Damn, know that one, we have dark blue pants at our school and I leak precum when I make out..stains and can't hide it....only one suggestion, jerk more....I'm doin it 3 times a day now!!

RadioPlayer
January 1st, 2011, 05:40 PM
I don't think you can stop yourself from getting turned on, but you could try wearing tighter underwear. Briefs will hopefully compress the amount that it shows.

Rosewood
January 1st, 2011, 08:19 PM
Wow, thanks for all the suggestions, gonna try them all. Thanks very muchly :)

drcookie
January 2nd, 2011, 01:30 AM
maybe ask her whether or not she prefers people to see your boner before switching to compression shorts? if your mates bag you out about it, they're just jealous.