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Bath
December 30th, 2010, 04:19 PM
My mother was "cleaning up" my room and found my journal and read it.
She now knows I am not a virgin, that I've smoked pot, and that I'm bisexual.
She only explained that to me, that's all I know, and she says she has to talk to me more about it. She said later today we will. I'm nervous as FUCK.
What do I do?
Just.. spill the truth? everything?
Rutherford The Brave
December 30th, 2010, 04:27 PM
Its your life, why are you hiding what you do? Sex is good, sex is amazing. If your ready to have sex and mature, if she asks you if you have had sex you say fuck yes. Weed is a plant, a plant that is fun to share, and its a good time, she says have you ever smoked cronic? Fuck yeah, and I'd do it again. If your attracted to men and women, tell her, its your life she can't tell you what sex you can and cant like.
nick
December 30th, 2010, 04:30 PM
Keeping a journal may not have been the best plan with hindsight. Be honest with her, if she didnt immediately go mad, rant and rave, the chances are you can have a sensible discussion. The drugs will probably be more of an issue than the sexuality, but you will probably get some sort of lecture on safe sex.
It could work out for the best, coming out is difficult, but also is releasing. Best wishes & good luck.
Sor3
December 30th, 2010, 04:33 PM
tbh, parents usually know anyway, its weird, i think you had better just be open with what she asks, hope everything works out ok x
Dunce
January 2nd, 2011, 10:39 AM
She shouldn't have read your diary in the first place. And there's nothing in there you should be ashamed of, which means you can be truthful. She wont ask you anything you can't answer, don't worry
FullyAlive
January 2nd, 2011, 10:49 AM
First of all I'm so sorry she did that it's an invasion of privacy!
If it was me I wouldn't say anything until she asked me just in case some if it hadn't registered or she didn't get to that part. But if you feel that it would be better for you to just say everything first do it that way, and I agree with nick the drugs will probably be the main issue but just explain it to her and remember to keep calm don't get angry.
I hope it all works out ok good luck :)
Charleigh
January 2nd, 2011, 10:59 AM
My mum done the same.
Dont tell her what she doesnt know, just admit to what she does know.
I hope it goes ok :/
Good Luck!
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