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Craig1995
December 30th, 2010, 07:04 AM
Alot of straight people say there curious. Are there any curious gays or does that make you bi?

INACTIVE_USER
December 30th, 2010, 10:12 AM
I think a curious gay person could exsist becuse a straight person can be curious without being bi

ShatteredWings
December 30th, 2010, 10:19 AM
Yeah, i don't see why there aren't some gay people who are a little curious about girls.

MoveAlong
December 30th, 2010, 12:07 PM
There are. I was. But I would never do a girl. Unless you paid me. But that would make me a ho.

It makes sense. A guy can discover he likes guys and label himself as gay, then have a few sexual feelings for women and wonder if he was too quick to judge. Or maybe he likes men so much that he never noticed women until his hormones messed with his brain and then he got a little confused. It happens, too.

triplet1
December 30th, 2010, 01:24 PM
Yeah I think i'm gay but I still realize that a really hot woman is hot

Captor K
December 30th, 2010, 02:07 PM
If I see a really attractive girl, I do get curious from time to time. Then I see a guy, and that shit flies out of the window. Women may not arouse me, but that doesn't stop me from wondering. Curiosity is a part of human nature, especially when there's sex involved.

willrod
December 30th, 2010, 11:39 PM
Yeah I think i'm gay but I still realize that a really hot woman is hot

Well beauty is quite obvious- I think if you ask any gay guy if they think a really attractive woman is attractive, they will most definitely say yes. Just like if you were to ask a straight guy if they can pick out if a guy is attractive, they would say yes too. But in my humble opinion, before you can identify as gay- you have to go through that period of questioning and stuff- before you truly realize that you're exclusively attracted to the same sex. Otherwise, you'd just be bisexual.

Fruit_Tart.
December 31st, 2010, 03:19 AM
damn. never thought of that... hmmm. guess gay people can be curious.

LilTurtle
December 31st, 2010, 02:12 PM
Now I am so CONFUSED !

Captor K
December 31st, 2010, 02:33 PM
But in my humble opinion, before you can identify as gay- you have to go through that period of questioning and stuff- before you truly realize that you're exclusively attracted to the same sex. Otherwise, you'd just be bisexual.

I think you're close, but something is missing. I do agree with the whole questioning, "Am I gay?" phase, but it's the second part that throws me a little. I wouldn't quite go as far as to say all gays are exclusively attracted to the same sex, just like I wouldn't say all straight people are exclusively attracted to the opposite sex. There's a bit of a debate about that. I have heard gay men (self-accepting ones, at that) confess sleeping freely with women, or even wanting to in certain respects. I think much of it depends on the circumstances. I identify as gay, but not exclusively so. I keep an open mind. A little studying of sexuality quickly showed me just how few people are exclusively one thing or the other.

That is all. :P

Craig1995
December 31st, 2010, 09:39 PM
Thanx Alot I was wondering because I am definitely gay but I can get quite attached to girls emotionally and find them abit pretty but the second I see one naked I'm turned right of.
Thanx for the help really appreciated!!!

Alexithymia
December 31st, 2010, 09:54 PM
I know I am. And as odd as this sounds, I'm just as fearful as a curious straight would be. I enjoy being gay right now. :)

Fourth Dimension
January 1st, 2011, 07:51 PM
its just human nature a gay guy and be curious just like a straight guy

Sebastian Michaelis
January 2nd, 2011, 06:42 PM
It makes sense. A guy can discover he likes guys and label himself as gay, then have a few sexual feelings for women and wonder if he was too quick to judge. Or maybe he likes men so much that he never noticed women until his hormones messed with his brain and then he got a little confused. It happens, too.

YEP HE IS RIGHT:D:D:yes::yes: