Sex

[xhelgrindx]

Me and my gf have been dating for a year now and we both want to have sex. Well part of me wants to and part of me kinda wants to wait. I want my first time to be romantic and sexy ya know on a bed but its really hard to do that we can't at my house we can't at her house and we can't get a hotel shes moving out in the summer as she graduates this year and her parents are taking a road trip this summer so we would be able to do it in a bed. But she says she doesn't care and wouldn't mind doing it in her car. But idk you don't have alot of room in a car and its not as romantic or sexy but idk. We are both virgins as well. Do you think its weird that i want that but she doesn't care? You'd think the girl would want that and the guy wouldn't care but ya idk. What do you guys think should we wait or should we go for it. Thanks

[ImCoolBeans]

i would just not do it if you guys are deciding a place, time and trying to make such a hasty decision, thats since you want it to be a certain way though...

[Sage]

Car sex is sexy. It's harder to get caught in a bed.

You'd think the girl would want that and the guy wouldn't care but ya idk.
Not the sort of girls I'm into. Ha!

[Wicked_Syn]

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[KylieEatWorld]

It can still be beautiful and romantic without a bed. Take a picnic basket to a secluded spot at midnight. Spread a blanket out, eat, talk, and make love under the stars. Of course is it how its done that's bothering you or the actual doing? In that case I would suggest you wait until you're completely ready and well prepared.

[xhelgrindx]

It can still be beautiful and romantic without a bed. Take a picnic basket to a secluded spot at midnight. Spread a blanket out, eat, talk, and make love under the stars. Of course is it how its done that's bothering you or the actual doing? In that case I would suggest you wait until you're completely ready and well prepared.

Where could I find such a place. That is secluded and we would be alone and no one would stumble across us.

[xhelgrindx]

Pull up to a aerial view of somewhere and do it there. GOLDEN. Somewhere with a view and that should set the mood.

Also where could i find such a place it's hard to find a secluded place where no one would find us.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Car sex is sexy. It's harder to get caught in a bed.


Not the sort of girls I'm into. Ha!

ZING!

You have to be I think 21 or 23 to rent a hotel room.
Sex is sex, its going to be romantic have some.

Where could I find such a place. That is secluded and we would be alone and no one would stumble across us.

You tell me.

[Kiko]

Me and my gf have been dating for a year now and we both want to have sex. Well part of me wants to and part of me kinda wants to wait. I want my first time to be romantic and sexy ya know on a bed

If a part of you wants to wait then you're probably not ready. You won't lose anything by waiting, but you can go through a lot of stress if you have sex before you're ready. I would talk to her about it and tell her what you want, if she loves you she'll wait for you :)

[Sogeking]

Car sex is sexy.

And in some places illegal ;) but I guess that adds to the sexiness.

As for the OP, yeah if part of you is still nervous then it is best to wait, but you might as well take a long shot. As for the place to do it just find a secluded place that is at least romantic. That ought to be an unforgettable experience.:rolleyes:

[aussie_guy]

I think she'd apprechiate u wanting it to be special and in a bed. just tell her the way u feel and where u want to do it, because loosing ur virginity is supposed to be special

[Sage]

loosing ur virginity is supposed to be special

Not to everyone.

[Aves]

If a part of you wants to wait then you're probably not ready. You won't lose anything by waiting, but you can go through a lot of stress if you have sex before you're ready. I would talk to her about it and tell her what you want, if she loves you she'll wait for you :)

I couldn't say this better. From the second I saw "part of me wants to wait" my answer was set. Wait.

[Daniel_]

I'd wait until your completely ready, because if any part of you has doubts, you will probably end up regretting it afterwards.

Make sure it's special to you, as well as her. And there are more romantic places than a bed, like the kitchen counter for example. ;)

[The Joker]

Do her on the living room floor.