im in love with my best friend

[ImCoolBeans]

i've never had feeling like this before. shes the best friend i've ever had and i honestly can see myself marrying her... i've never had such a stong connection with someone like i do with her. we have everything in common and we hangout all the time. i feel like if im having these thoughts its crossed her mind before too. i want to say something so badly but i just cant. the thought of ruining our friend makes me sick :( any ideas? :confused:

[Fruit_Tart.]

go with the flow. ask her if she has more than a friendship feeling toward you, if your afraid to ask her try n get some ideas off of the things she does. try not to push her to find out if she likes you back. you'll know when the right time is. if your not ready to tell her you love her then wait, but if you can't wait any longer then try and tell her. i dunno if that's gonna help you at all, but i wish you the best of luck! :)

[IAMWILL]

Woah, slow down eager beaver.
Remember marriage means you want to be with that person the rest of your life, not through some hormone-induced love rage towards this girl.
Besides that though Rainbowkid gave some pretty good advice and I would go with what he said.
But seriously, don't overwhelm yourself (it'll overwhelm her as well)

[The Joker]

i've never had feeling like this before. shes the best friend i've ever had and i honestly can see myself marrying her... i've never had such a stong connection with someone like i do with her. we have everything in common and we hangout all the time. i feel like if im having these thoughts its crossed her mind before too. i want to say something so badly but i just cant. the thought of ruining our friend makes me sick :( any ideas? :confused:

I'd honestly suggest you wait it out. At one point, I felt like I was strongly in love with one of my female best friends. I felt that way for about a month. Now, I consider myself gay. Sometimes you may have a strong love feeling for your friends, but that's just a friendly, platonic, non-romantic love. Wait it out and if you still feel like this for a little while, then I'd suggest telling her that you have feelings for her.

[chazzrox2]

Starting a relationship with a best friend can ruin it, but then again it may go wrong yet you keep the friend. I was in love with my best friend for years, so much that I began to resent it (and her occasionally), eventually i just had to ask her out becuase, like me, you know that at some point the pain of not being with her is worth the risk, and especially more if she is with somebody else.
So yes wait for a bit atleast, just make sure you know what your doing, that your ready and that she is ready ofcourse. And just remember: things don't always go as planned
Good luck

[ImCoolBeans]

I'd honestly suggest you wait it out. At one point, I felt like I was strongly in love with one of my female best friends. I felt that way for about a month. Now, I consider myself gay. Sometimes you may have a strong love feeling for your friends, but that's just a friendly, platonic, non-romantic love. Wait it out and if you still feel like this for a little while, then I'd suggest telling her that you have feelings for her.

i've felt like this for about a year

[The Joker]

i've felt like this for about a year

Well, if that's the case, my answer has changed. I'd suggest you just try asking her out. Plan a day to tell her, and then go up to her and tell her how you feel.

[maddness5]

Im in the same situation with my best friend! I asked her out she said no at first but now we're about to date, her opinion about you can change. You never know unless you try, and the reason i went for it was because I didnt want to be thinking what if! You never know, when my friend said no at first we just acted like nothing happened, it didnt change our relationship at all!

[BoarderGirl]

i've never had feeling like this before. shes the best friend i've ever had and i honestly can see myself marrying her... i've never had such a stong connection with someone like i do with her. we have everything in common and we hangout all the time. i feel like if im having these thoughts its crossed her mind before too. i want to say something so badly but i just cant. the thought of ruining our friend makes me sick :( any ideas? :confused:

i'm n the exact same situation....except you know ....im a girl and he's a boy :P
ok so the best way to a girls <3 is by making her feel special. get her a cute teddy bear or whrite her a song(if ur not musical a pome works too.). just make sure it's different (something to set you appart). next build up ur relationship.. sure you're bff's but there has to be something you don't know about her. get personal. after that you should have her thinking about you ALL the time. make sure to take your time and also make sure you know what she wants out of the relationship. if you truely want it to work (which i'm guessing you do) TAKE YOUR TIME!!! good things come to thoes who wait

[BoarderGirl]

Im in the same situation with my best friend! I asked her out she said no at first but now we're about to date, her opinion about you can change. You never know unless you try, and the reason i went for it was because I didnt want to be thinking what if! You never know, when my friend said no at first we just acted like nothing happened, it didnt change our relationship at all!

this is totaly true about the "like it never happened" the guy i was talking about above ^ asked me out last year and i said no but now i like him and (luckily) he still likes me. just go for it