do you think that it was innapropriate for me to share a bed with my uncle?

[mike.virtualteen]

We had a big family vacation, where most of my aunts, uncles, cousins etc. came along, we rented a cabin by the lake, and I was going to be sharing a bed with my uncle tommy, he's single and 39 years old, and I'm 15, my uncle and I shared a bed, it was kinda small, but it was okay. Well my uncle wore one of those black jockstraps that only covers your privates but his butt was completely exposed. and I mean the only thing I wore were briefs, that's it but the bed was small and I could pretty much feel his body against mine and he is really hairy.

[nick]

Under some circumstances, and the type of holiday you have described is one of them, its not inappropriate to share a bed with a relative although its a shame it wasnt someone nearer your own age. However, whilst I think it was fine for you to just wear briefs his choice of underwear/sleepwear seems rather inappropriate.

[teenageapplelover]

The jockstrap is a bit odd, but as long as your just sleeping NEXT to your uncle, and it's because you lacked resources for individual beds, it seems appropriate.

Edit: that being said, If you were uncomfortable...it was inappropriate.

[smitty35]

that would feel very uncomfortable. Whoever made the sleeping arrangements is an idiot. Why in the world didnt you get paired with someone you age, preferably a cousin?

[Just _1_ Look]

Uumm..Undersome circumstances yes..but along as no physical actvity went on no not at all! But I suppose it would be uncomfortable

[chase.]

I would have slept on the floor.

[SamB]

I think thats fine as long as he didnt do anything to you and you were ok with it

[abcd1234]

that is a little weird
why didn't you share a bed with a cousin closer to your age?
I guess it's not really inappropriate that you shared a bed though

[SwimTech]

You guys are family, and your parents trust him. Its fine, as long as he didnt try to do anything, theres nothing wrong with it.

[tyler007]

Yea the jock strap is a bit weird.. but like other said as long as your ok with it, if not sleep on the floor or someplace else. And I would ask him to put some underware on. or ask your dad or mom (or who ever he is the sibling of) to tell him to put on something else Good luck
And dont let it be uncomphy for you.

[Infidelitas]

I really dont see the point of jock straps. So long as he didnt do anything to you thats fine

[Donkey]

Considering he fiddled you as a kid (if this is the same uncle,) yes, that is inappropriate. Are you joking?

[nick]

Considering he fiddled you as a kid (if this is the same uncle,) yes, that is inappropriate. Are you joking?
mhm, having just read your other thread I have to assume its a different uncle, cant imagine your parents making you share a bed with an uncle that they know has sexually abused you. In fact if they knew any uncle had abused you I cant see any circumstance under which they would even consider putting you in bed with an uncle. So given the history, I change what I said in my earlier reply, it was inappropriate.

[SWMG]

Well if there were no other options like to sleep with a cousin your age or someone else it is fine just the jockstrap thing was kind of odd but if you just slept then i think it is fine

[ccrunner]

He is your family it's not inappropriate at all and he probably wore a jockstrap because he sleeps naked and decided to keep it all in lol

[DrummerGuy]

I wonder if he is being suggestive by wearing the jockstrap.

[PJay]

Inappropriate. He had no other clothes or underwear he could have chosen? I'm guessing he did (!) so why did he go for the one that left his bum hanging out? If you guys are used to seeing each other naked its less odd but still seems very strange choice to me.