I don't know what I am?

[flookey5]

Hi, I'm 17 (dude...boy... male whatever u like to call it lol).

i don't know whether i'm straight/gay/bisexual or what.

I seem to get turned on by both sexes, I like looking at girls, and I like looking at guys. But when I think of kissing a guy (no offence to anyone) it turns me off. I'd rather kiss a girl...

I don't know what I am, what do you think?

Cheers!

[Weeping]

I think you just need time. After a while you'll probably realize who you are.
Just don't stress it cause then you could came up with the wrong answer.

:hug:

[Kiko]

Just take some time :) My friend recently had this big "freak out" about whether or not he was bi. A few weeks later he realized that it was mostly hormones and that he didn't really have feelings for guys.

Don't rush :)

[wiip]

I sometimes get that; the problem can often be thinking of the wrong guy.

As we are raised in a culture that vastly condones heterosexuality, and almost discriminates against homosexuality, our default position is 'straight'. But sometimes that's just not the way we are.

This means that we'll then be a bit lost, knowing we feel for guys, but have spent our entire lives expecting girls. So we don't know what we should like, what are the best bits, who we'd prefer- you might- just as I have done- end up looking at guys that just don't float your boat, and think that you can't be gay/bi. But if you see the right guy, and realise what you really like, you'll know the truth in yourself.

Personally, I don't like girls with huge breasts, or certain kinds of vagina- which made me think I was gay for a bit, because girls I saw in the media (especially pornography) didn't appeal to me. You just need to get over what's expected, and see who you are.

Remember that it could just be those raging swirling hormones! You need to think, keep it all in mind, every minute of every day, and you'll see.

[guil1214]

im kind of the same way. i only like thinking about doing stuff with guys when im horny. but when it wears off i think its weird. but the more and more i think about it i get less weirded out. i guess it just takes time.

[CaliKiDD]

your really just curious you just want to see what a dude can bring to the table...go ahead try it..you may like it

[hotandgay]

well there is also pan-sexual i dont know much on the topic of pan-sexuality but what i kno is that there attracted to someone not caring what the sex of that person is...if you want more info on this topic i could do some research on it and ask my pan-sexual friends just tell me

[Fourth Dimension]

you could be curious you could be gay you could be bi you could be straight you just need to figure yourself out it will come to you your will one day realized hey im emotionally and physically attracted to guys or girls or both it will come to you it just takes time

[Harley Quinn]

I don't think that you are bi, nor gay, nor even curious. I just think that due to your confusion you think that you are something, i think that if you wait until for a few more years you will realise this.