In need of advise

[hayrox]

my names hailey and i am 13. this year 2010 i have gone through alot i had had 5 deaths this year of my closest family. i am really depressed and had thoughts of suiside running away and i cant handle it anymore! my theripist knew i had thought of suiside bcuz i had to take this quiz thingy and i have ADHD and anxity disorder so i got mood meds and i have adhd med the mood med is a serolizer but its not helping i cant put up this this crap anymore PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!:(:(

[Fiction]

Death of family members is something that is very hard to get through, especially so many at once. This thread may help:
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=89128
I'm sorry to hear about your loss, but what will suicide do to help? Imagine your remaining family members. That'll add there total up to 6 in a short time. Surly you don't want to hurt them anymore? It's good that you are seeing a therapist. Hopefully this will soon begin to show positive effects.
Feel free to pm me if you want to talk :)

[spires]

well dont kill ur self its not worth it ok u need to just calm down and dont let it get to u just hang in there man

[Toaster]

Try going out to watch a movie or go out to eat with friends, do something that will get your mind out of negative thoughts.
I once imagined what it would be like dying, seeing all the people that cared to come, it was kind of nice to imagine that people cared about me. Try doing the same, I know it is a bit negative but I tend to look at the positive in the negative.

[Mike321]

Dealing with a death of a close family member is never an easy thing to do, have a look at the link Kathy posted, its really helpful.
And suicide is never worth it, even if it feels like the best option at the time, it effects alot more people than you think. You dont want your family dealing with a 6th death.
Its good that your getting help, give the meds time to work, and keep seeing your therapsit, things will get better

[Weeping]

I'm glad to hear that you're seeing a therapist. Try to really get all the help you can from it!
And if your meds doesn't work, then you should try talking about it and see if maybe there
is a better opinion that you could try. Cause different meds work for different people.

And about the deaths. Don't handle it through suicide. Don't hurt yourself eighter.
It will just lead to more shit. And the part of the family that's still alive. They want you
to live. If you commit suicide it will be one more death in their lives.

PM me if you ever need/want to talk.

:hug:

[JunkBondTrader]

I remember reading somewhere - no one actually wants to die, they just don't want to live under the current set of circumstances. I know it's hard, believe me, but if you just hold on when the going gets tough, you might wake up tomorrow and find the world's changed completely.

I'm so sorry for your loss but suicide won't bring those people back. Every time it comes into you're mind just keep thinking to yourself: "If I hold on just five minutes longer, my life could change." You never know, it could, no matter how impossible it is to believe.

Stay strong and keep talking to your therapist. They're there to help y'know. :)

[DreamSeeker]

Try talking to your counsellor more and see if they can offer anymore help. And I know how hard that may be but try and look to the future and hope 2011 goes well.


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