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DreamerGirl
December 27th, 2010, 03:23 PM
So I recently came out to my parents as being Bi. They are fine with it now. And I want to start dating. Only problem is I have a Crush on a boy and a girl at the same time. I really like them both. But I dont know who to choose. Im not sure yet if I want my first relationship to be with a Boy or a Girl. Anyone have any advice?
Weeping
December 27th, 2010, 06:01 PM
Now I don't know how close you are with them, but try to learn to know both of them better first,
maybe hang out with them or something.. (:

After a while maybe you will feel more "crushed" on one of them than the other.

Btw, I'm glad to hear everything worked out with your parents! (:

:hug:
Mynameisconner
December 27th, 2010, 10:00 PM
Just take the time to see who you like more. That must be difficult. Goodluck!
smitty35
December 28th, 2010, 12:26 AM
All I can say is: Go with your heart...and your gut feeling.
ccrunner
December 28th, 2010, 01:10 AM
All of these are correct it's your life, wait, go for one of em just try not to ruin any friendships
DreamerGirl
December 28th, 2010, 01:33 AM
ok thanks everyone. I'll get to know them both and see how it goes :). Ive been thinking about it and I kinda want to be with a girl more but we'll see how it goes :)
KillerKing
December 28th, 2010, 08:23 PM
One thing to keep in mind is don't go with one because of their sex. Fall in love with the person, not what they are but who they are.
DreamerGirl
December 28th, 2010, 09:44 PM
One thing to keep in mind is don't go with one because of their sex. Fall in love with the person, not what they are but who they are.


ok that makes sense. :)

I talked to the girl today im starting to really like her. I hope she likes me back :wub:
wiip
December 28th, 2010, 10:33 PM
Also, you have to make sure that they can like you back! Make sure you know if the guy's gay, or if the girl's not: that may make your mind up for you :P
DreamerGirl
December 29th, 2010, 06:09 AM
omg im so happy. So the girl texted me and said she wanted to talk so we met up at the coffee shop and she told me that she liked me and that she was Bi and she might date me if her parents say its ok. So I might have a girlfriend ^_^
Mrs.KermitTheFrogx
December 29th, 2010, 06:15 AM
Yourr sooo lucky
my parents would NEVER accept im bi :/ x
DreamerGirl
December 29th, 2010, 04:30 PM
Yourr sooo lucky
my parents would NEVER accept im bi :/ x


Aww im sorry :(