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Trackstar29
December 27th, 2010, 09:46 AM
So my gf is nervous about giving me head, shes never seen one or even touched one, i told her some calming advice but what else could i tell her to make her feel more calm about giving me head for the 1st time?

Mrs.KermitTheFrogx
December 27th, 2010, 10:28 AM
As weird as it sounds if she has never seen or touched one before ,,
why dont you let her feel you up first to get used to it ?
she probly doesnt want to hurt her so exsplain if your balls are sensitive
ohh and even if she rubbish tell her it was amazin just so she doesnt feel abit self conscious :)x

nick
December 27th, 2010, 10:35 AM
Well tell her that it doesnt matter, there's no hurry, you dont want her to do anything until she feels ready and comfortable about it. Vikki is right, it sounds like you are expecting too much in one go if she's never even seen one before. Work your way up to it, be content if she touches you through your trousers at first, then when she's ready, accept a hand job. Always think about her, what she wants, and make sure that its not just your own pleasure that counts.

ShatteredWings
December 27th, 2010, 11:48 AM
Everything above that's been covered, and i'd say if she's acting like she doesn't want to, don't force her to.

chazzrox2
December 27th, 2010, 03:56 PM
The worst thing you can do is force her. In my head I always imagined a natural progression from kissing, to handjobs, to blowjobs then sex, it doesn't always work like that but usually lol
Don't run before you can walk

OhMightyLion
December 27th, 2010, 04:45 PM
Don't force her into anything, that's just wrong. Go with baby steps, let her see it first then touch it and stroke it and stuff and then when she's ready she'll give you head (if she wants to). But take it easy, the perfect time will come.

Daniel_
December 27th, 2010, 06:36 PM
Well.. It's been said before, but.. Don't try and convince her to do it, as that will only make you the bad guy in this. You should simply give her time, and if your good to her, she will come around.

Also, (IF SHES READY!) maybe try being a little extra.. "Nice", to her as well. but remember, let her choose. When the time is right, the time is right. If she has ANY doubt, DON'T DO IT.

The last thing you want, is to be "That guy I never should have gotten with". Or, in other words, another one of her mistakes.

Good luck man, you'll need it. ;P

Sage
December 27th, 2010, 07:53 PM
If you care that much about getting head maybe you should date a sluttier girl.