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HiImChris
December 26th, 2010, 11:23 PM
Hey, A couple days ago i lost my virginity and i only lasted 2 mins in bed. the problem is i accidently came inside of her. Im 13 and my cum is usually only clear with a tiny white tint. please dont judge me or tell me what i shouldnt have done. all i want to know is the likelihood of conception. I dont know if it helps but she tried to push out some of the cum. im kinda really worried
MoveAlong
December 26th, 2010, 11:54 PM
Please realize that pushing out semen is not an effective method of contraception.
The worry is real. Whether or not your cum has "developed" you're in puberty. There are probably sperm cells in your semen, and you're of the age where you can bear a child. What's the likelihood? Hard to say.
But there's a real chance you could be a daddy. I hope you and all of our readers learn form this - use contraception no matter what - you will never know what will happen. Some people might say that you should of controlled yourself - well, you're 13, right? Give him a break. Being able to control your orgasms at that age is difficult, especially if you're that horny and you actually get to have sex. The blame is not about you cumming early, the blame is that you didn't use contraception.
Get a pregnancy test. Good luck.
Coolcar65
December 27th, 2010, 12:00 AM
How can you be having sex at 13. Ive heard of 16 and pregnant but 13 and pregnant! And if you were so smart to have sex at 13 why couldent you at least wear a condom. Best thing to do now is take her to the doctor or buy a pregnancy test. If it comes out positive then your a daddy and prepare for the worst!
nick
December 27th, 2010, 03:38 AM
It was silly not to use a condom, but no use crying over spilt milk. Yes, there is a chance that she could be pregnant, it would be unlucky, but there's definitely a chance. There may still be time for her to take a "morning after pill" which would be a good idea under the circumstances.
Fact
December 27th, 2010, 07:13 AM
How can you be having sex at 13. Ive heard of 16 and pregnant but 13 and pregnant! And if you were so smart to have sex at 13 why couldent you at least wear a condom. Best thing to do now is take her to the doctor or buy a pregnancy test. If it comes out positive then your a daddy and prepare for the worst!
Pregnancy tests don't work instantaneously and by the time it does their lives will already be a mess.
Therefore she should: ↓
take a "morning after pill" which would be a good idea under the circumstances.
Which would be much more sensible.
In future, always use a condom. Or, just don't have sex.
Coolcar65
December 27th, 2010, 12:59 PM
Pregnancy tests don't work instantaneously and by the time it does their lives will already be a mess..
Oh sorry i didnt know. Guess i learned something new today! Haha
Fact
December 27th, 2010, 01:01 PM
Oh sorry i didnt know. Guess i learned something new today! Haha
:P no worries.
But yeah, to the OP, get it sorted now otherwise you will have ruined your life and who ever it was who you had sex with's life and the babies life and possibly your parents lives too.
chazzrox2
December 27th, 2010, 01:33 PM
A lot of negativity towards this whole underage parent thing going on with everyone. Obviously there are things you should or shouldn't have done but that's your fault and nobody can help with that now can they!
Second, she either is or she isn't pregnant and she has the decision on how to deal with it so I advice you to sit down and think of all the things you can do to handle the situation, but like I said she decides what to do...NOT you.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
Charleigh
December 27th, 2010, 01:34 PM
wow. im not going to lecture you, you already know by this lot :lol:
i hope everything goes well and everything is for the best! o_O
Nilnoc
December 30th, 2010, 03:44 AM
Always keep in mind, that if worst comes to absolute shit hitting the fan worst, there are abortions.
I suggest this at the risk of offending you or others who read this, and if i do, I hope you accept my most sincere apologies.
And the best of luck to ye both.
bond3108
January 31st, 2011, 03:18 PM
There is a slim possibility? Has she started having periods? The best thing to do is use a condom in the first place, and now go to the doctors and get a pregnancy test.
HiImChris
January 31st, 2011, 07:17 PM
To resolve all arising worrier, i'm in the clear... thanks for all the advice =)
bond3108
February 1st, 2011, 02:38 PM
I glad for you :) Use a condom next time lol
Weeping
February 1st, 2011, 03:27 PM
How's it going now? (:
Rodeo
February 1st, 2011, 08:01 PM
clear or not dude if the cum whent in her she could get pregnant - you might just be a dad
BigG
May 11th, 2011, 02:43 PM
Hey, A couple days ago i lost my virginity and i only lasted 2 mins in bed. the problem is i accidently came inside of her. Im 13 and my cum is usually only clear with a tiny white tint. please dont judge me or tell me what i shouldnt have done. all i want to know is the likelihood of conception. I dont know if it helps but she tried to push out some of the cum. im kinda really worried It depends on three things:1. Was she sexually mature enough to get pregnant 2. Was the cum precum 3. Has she ovulated-BigG
Buckhunter
May 11th, 2011, 03:02 PM
Doesnt matter whether or not its pre-cum. If it turns out she isnt then you have learned you lesson. I did the same thing with my gf- longest month of my life, she even had morning sickness, turned out it was the flu. Just make sure you buy a condom next time. I know it was scary the first time i bought one but it actually shows that your mature enough to be safe. If your still afraid have someone you trust get them for you. I just bought a pack for my friend so there are people out there who will do it you just gotta know where to look
smitty35
May 11th, 2011, 10:15 PM
The only way to know is a pregnancy test. There is a great chance that you do have sperm in your clear semen. You should have used a condom. And this is a huge lesson to all.
tpzy94
May 11th, 2011, 10:18 PM
wow im speechless and you should be fine keyword should
Sogeking
May 11th, 2011, 10:20 PM
Bumped thread plus the problem is already solved.
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