devilsheep
December 25th, 2010, 11:00 PM
I was seeing this girl from work who recently just got out of a prolonged relationship with her ex-boyfriend (month prior to starting up with me).
We went on a few dates and she came over a couple times and we started making out and really growing comfortable with eachother. She said she wanted to take it slow and i tried my best.
So the christmas break comes and i'm excited to see her, but no dates work for her. I ask a few times and also ask to go on break with her a few times but everything so conveniently didn't work out for various reasons. Then all of a sudden she grew very disinterested in me and I noticed quite fast.
I gave it a couple days to make sure then i eventually texted her asking her just what is going on. She responded saying that shes not sure, but we either went too fast and its made her back off or shes just not really ready for much. She said she hopes i don't think badly of her and is sorry if she did anything wrong. I took it perfectly told her im sorry for not being more careful about the whole situation and as of right now we are friends.
I'm just sort of upset about the whole situation. Everything seemed to be going perfectly and i was really happy she was in my life, and she gave every sign that she was happy too telling me she gets butterflis thinking about me, but then this happens. I want to ask her more details about the whole thing like if it was something I did to trigger her sudden change of mind or if it was gradual and she just recently has decided that she doesn't know what shes doing.
Would it be okay you think for me to ask additional details? She's already said thanks for understanding because I said i know you just broke up with your ex and i should have taken that into more concideration but still something makes me think it was something I did.
Im really upset over the whole thing, i want her back, but im not sure how to approach the situation. I want answers but at the same time I don't wanna ruin anything. Any suggestions?
Thanks
We went on a few dates and she came over a couple times and we started making out and really growing comfortable with eachother. She said she wanted to take it slow and i tried my best.
So the christmas break comes and i'm excited to see her, but no dates work for her. I ask a few times and also ask to go on break with her a few times but everything so conveniently didn't work out for various reasons. Then all of a sudden she grew very disinterested in me and I noticed quite fast.
I gave it a couple days to make sure then i eventually texted her asking her just what is going on. She responded saying that shes not sure, but we either went too fast and its made her back off or shes just not really ready for much. She said she hopes i don't think badly of her and is sorry if she did anything wrong. I took it perfectly told her im sorry for not being more careful about the whole situation and as of right now we are friends.
I'm just sort of upset about the whole situation. Everything seemed to be going perfectly and i was really happy she was in my life, and she gave every sign that she was happy too telling me she gets butterflis thinking about me, but then this happens. I want to ask her more details about the whole thing like if it was something I did to trigger her sudden change of mind or if it was gradual and she just recently has decided that she doesn't know what shes doing.
Would it be okay you think for me to ask additional details? She's already said thanks for understanding because I said i know you just broke up with your ex and i should have taken that into more concideration but still something makes me think it was something I did.
Im really upset over the whole thing, i want her back, but im not sure how to approach the situation. I want answers but at the same time I don't wanna ruin anything. Any suggestions?
Thanks