bad dreams about a mate

[lilum]

recently i have had about 3 dreams about on of my friends (a guy)
the first dream we were in a house naked together and then we started to make out and then i gave him a blow job and he was saying all these sexual things to me
the second dream was just us holding hands and walking though then town together and we issed once
the third dream we were lyeing in bed naked and we started to feel echother up and everything then we had sex for most of the dream and at the end we just made out and then i woke up
i was owndering does this mean enything like im gay or i fancie him or is it just a silly dream?

[KillerKing]

Well, Dreams are just dreams. It's possible there are... sub-conscious feelings there. But the way to determine whether you fancy him is to ask yourself that question while your awake XD. And no having that kind of dream does not make you gay.

[Teen Music Lover]

dreams are a curious thing...
I would say if you have more than the three you probaably like him...
if not, just a fantasy.

[Zazu]

I think you're far too hasty to label these as 'bad' dreams.

You're 15, you're young, you're most likely curious, you'll still have hormones raging around your body. It's perfectly normal to have experienced what you did and there's nothing wrong about it.

My advice would be to just sit back and see where it all takes you as most people your age are still very curious about their sexuality.

[ccrunner]

I have the same thing and I feel it's just a silly dream. Well i hope

[cyates]

i have had the same dreams, but he is my best mate, and now its kinda awkward to talk to him without thinking of the dreams....if ya get me? :)

[ShatteredWings]

Dreams are weird shit in your mind, that often blend many things together.

Do't think too much of it

[boosterboy]

don't worry it's only a dream

[KarkatLuv]

Just means your curious, wanna no if your that way, experiment!

[Kujiro]

I've always believe that dreams although would remain where they are, but it's still evident work of the mind. The things we desire in the day which our minds choose to believe it's farfetched would sink into the subconscious and visualize during dreaming.

Although dreams may seem weird on an entire spectrum, but there is partial truth in them.

You may or may not have considered certain acts within these dreams, but could it be possible you have had thoughts of experimentation or going a step further with your friend?

You mentioned it happened not once but thrice, which I'm sure there is some form of fantasy which this came about.

It's not wrong neither does it label your sexuality.
Many answers to your questions come about by understanding yourself better.

Take your time on this one, as time goes by, these events would eventually be clearer.

Good luck
*smile*

[Weeping]

First off.. It's nothing wrong with being gay.

These dreams wont make you gay, but is it possible you've had any thoughts about your friend, or overall, like that? Because dreams are based on what is on your mind during the days kinda.

You may be gay/bi, but at this point I think that you may just be curious. Try not to think about it to much, even if that can be hard. Just give it time and you'll se what sexuality you are. (:

[Donkey]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: