View Full Version : Long. Distance. Sucks.
Eagle63
December 23rd, 2010, 11:17 AM
Hey, this is my first post.
I'm 13 and met this great girl at an Overnight Camp thats about 45 mins away, but she lives 90 mins away. We're great friends, and sometimes flirt as a joke, but now I sometimes don't think it's as much of a joke. I like her and idk if she likes me. I'd try to make a move, I'm not a coward, but I never see her face-to-face and it's against my code to ask someone out via text or e-mail, and I'm really busy with stuff at home. Help me out; what do I do?
Cloud
December 23rd, 2010, 11:19 AM
http://www.infrastructurist.com/wp-content/uploads/obama-high-speed-rail-plans.jpg
hop on one of these badboys with some mates and sort out a meet up with her
ShatteredWings
December 23rd, 2010, 11:21 AM
PA lacks a decent train system outside of the tracks in major cities calum
Eagle63
December 23rd, 2010, 11:23 AM
PA lacks a decent train system outside of the tracks in major cities calum
Exactly... any other ideas?
ShatteredWings
December 23rd, 2010, 11:28 AM
how old are you, maybe you could borrow a car
Cloud
December 23rd, 2010, 11:29 AM
PA lacks a decent train system outside of the tracks in major cities calum
really?
that bloody sucks
since you know her properly since youve met before(if i read that right) it wont be an awkward i met them on internets so you could ask a parent or family member or friend to drive you?
laurita_21
December 23rd, 2010, 11:32 AM
it sucks. And since you're 13 I don't think anyone would let you go by yourself, no? How about telling your parents or an older sibling to take you?
Daniel_
December 23rd, 2010, 01:10 PM
Call her.?
It's not email, and it's not text, so it's not going against your "code".
Or you could always skype with her, and ask then if you have a webcam.
If not, and you REAALLLY want to see her face to face, have her take pictures of herself constantly while you are expressing your emotions via cell phone, and have her send them to you through text as your talking. It's practically the same thing.
Sage
December 23rd, 2010, 06:10 PM
You're thirteen and she lives over an hour away. It isn't going to last. Don't stress yourself over it.
Amnesiac
December 23rd, 2010, 07:23 PM
You're thirteen and she lives over an hour away. It isn't going to last. Don't stress yourself over it.
Yeah, long-distance relationships rarely ever work out. Sorry to break it to you. It's not going to make either of you happy; it'd be best if you just stayed friends and talked. Also, I hate to post this shit-tastic song, but here it is:
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Fuck, I hate the Naked Brothers Band with a burning passion.
rextoystory
December 23rd, 2010, 09:39 PM
Two options, you either wait until you can visit her more often or you forget her.
Long distance relationships are not good... they hurt, because you can never show your loved one how much you love her. If you find a way in which you could visit her, great! But if you don't.. I think it's best to just be friends.
Take care, good luck!
Bluesman
December 26th, 2010, 09:19 PM
I know how you feel man. I really want to go out with this girl I know that lives about a half an hour away from me, which isn't that far, but we're still in different school districts. I'm gonna be slightly hypocritical with my advice because it's something that I haven't done myself, but try to be able to spend some time with her, and when you do, make the most of it! Get her number and call her, it's not like being face to face, but it's the next best thing. Hope I helped!
INACTIVE_USER
December 29th, 2010, 09:22 AM
I've been in a long distnace relationship with a guy who lives back home for nearly 2 years now. If you truly love eachother, it will work. Like Daniel said skype or call her
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