Am I wrong

[Fourth Dimension]

okay i was woken up this morning at 3 but a friends text and at 3 in the morning im not the nicest person especially since im sick im not in the best mood but anyway my friend messaged me and said it would be best if i didnt talk to another friend im not gunna use names but apparently in absence from our usual hangout they had a meeting about me and to sum it up apparently im a piece of shit and they are all sick of me i admit i have my flaws but i guess they are were like oh im so annoying oh im worthless and im thinking why not just take this up with me instead of talking behind my back it pissed me off and so i got rid of them on facebook i mean why would i want people like that and now the one friend who im pissed at too wont stop calling me and texting me telling me how immature im being and basically how annoying i am and im just ignoring them i mean its just annoying having to shut my phone up every two minutes he even had the audacity to say he was my last chance at a social life last i knew i had other friends but its just really annoying they basically said im worthless because i dont have a job(looking for one) because i got my ged instead of my high school diploma and the fact im not in school and the fact i cant afford school oh and my favorite the fact i dont have my licence and now they are pissed that i vented on facebook i mean i proly shouldnt have vented on facebook but am i wrong for defending myself to them calling them out on this and basically trying to get them out of my life i mean if all they are gunna do is trash me then i dont need them i know my flaws and ive been working on them i consider myself a work in progress but i guess thats not good enough for them so idk if right on this or not but it really hurt you know these are people i thought i could depend on and they wanna do this why cant they just be mature and say what they have to say to my face hes like why do you think you wernt invited tonight because i knew they are all pissed at you im just like wow really i dont need them sorry im ranting i just needed to vent but am i wrong for reacting the way i did?

[LucyLovestrukk]

Thats completely horrid what they did! I understand talking about people behind their backs, we all do it right? But for them to all of a sudden come off with all of this and say its you who is being immature? They obviously arent very nice people. I know you say they were your friends (sorry for sounding mean here) but if they are saying all of this, they obviously werent true friends.
Just because youre not in school, dont have a job, a car etc. does not mean you are worthless, everyone goes through rough times and for them to dump this on you at this time is really mean! I vent on facebook too but everyone has just come to realise that i am an unusually grumpy teenager who has to get everything off my chest by ranting, so youre not alone! I think you are doing the right thing by ignoring this person texting you all the time, but maybe you should reply just once to ask where all this has come from and if there is anything you can do.
Just remember, friends arent everything, and you can make new ones, dont punish yourself for being you! if they cant accept you for who you are, they arent worth it.

I hope this helps a bit, and i'm really sorry to hear about your situation, i have been in similar ones. its never nice. X<3X

[DrkZ90]

They are the ones that did wrong, you didn't do anything wrong.

PS: Merry Christmas! :)

[Mynameisconner]

I think it's a sign that you can progress through life without them. If you let the stuff get to you; you are provoking a reaction they want. Go look in the mirror, smile, and know that tommorrow will be a better day with or without them, and regardless of what people are saying about you. I can see the smile already :)

[Jstr]

no your rite there the immature one you should just say "DUDE CAN YOU LIKE JUST STOP TEXTIN. IF YOUR ANNOYED BY ME WHY DO YOU KEEP TEXTIN ME" the just ignore them :)

[Fourth Dimension]

well thank you all of you things are okay actually one of the friends my friend just pulled her name into it when she had no part and when she found out she felt so bad and i found out about that through a mutual friend so i talked to her and her and i are cool but the one who started it all im completely done with