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msbrooklyn
December 22nd, 2010, 08:54 PM
ok so ive been friends with this girl since the beginning of this school year, shes very flirty towards everyone, girls included, but claims to be straight. she likes to dance very suductivly at school sometimes, and if i ask her to dance she will. i guess thats how it started i just loved the way she danced. but now ive gotten to know her and shes just incredible. i mean our group of friends are really close, we slap each others asses, hug all the time and huddle close together when its cold outside. but for some reason im only attracted to her. ive told her that when she dances she turns me on and it would help if she stopped doing it because we both agreed to just be friends. but i cant stop thinking about her, its driving me wild. i love her and i dont want to be just friends but she does. how can i get over her?
rextoystory
December 23rd, 2010, 09:19 PM
Hi Brook!
Stop having so much contact with her, I know you're friends and that's perfectly fine, but... I think this is hurting you. Try getting away from her, see what happens. :) Let me know how everything is going, if you need further help, contact me, my email's in my profile.
Take care! Good luck!
msbrooklyn
December 24th, 2010, 10:47 AM
yeah it breaks my heart everytime i see her and i cant get away from her like i said its a really close group if i just left the group not only would i be leaving all of my friends everyone would know how i feel about her and i dont want that
rextoystory
December 24th, 2010, 03:43 PM
So that's not an option... well, let's see... you could just hang in there, even though it hurts, exposure to what harms you might create some kind of immunity :) just think that she's going to be just a friend :) think of other things if you can :D
Charleigh
December 27th, 2010, 08:58 AM
with friends, its better to stay within the friend zone. you dont want to have a fling or anything, and then it affects your friendship. dont let her know about your feelings towards her as this could lead to akwardness.
staying friends is one of the best things, dont break out of that friendship zone as it might be hard to go back into it. good luck ! pm me if there is anything hun x
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