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phish
December 22nd, 2010, 12:04 PM
I'm 14, a guy, I like guys equally, boarding on more than girls and always have, I want to have sex with a guy. Is it possible this will go away?

Oh yeah and I'm a very well developed 14, I look like I'm 20.

Lights
December 22nd, 2010, 12:58 PM
You might think you're 'very well developed' but it doesn't necessarily mean that you are. There's a possibility it's just your hormones raging because of puberty. However if you're saying you like boys equally to girls, then you might be bisexual.

Only time will tell, but from what you've said I think you're bisexual and not bi-curious.

Dunce
December 22nd, 2010, 04:28 PM
To be honest it doesnt sound as if you're merely curious, you say you've always liked them equal. You could be anything because you're still young, but you sound more bisexual than bi-curious.

Kiko
December 22nd, 2010, 04:30 PM
To be honest it doesnt sound as if you're merely curious, you say you've always liked them equal. You could be anything because you're still young, but you sound more bisexual than bi-curious.

I agree, I always thought bi-curious was more of a wondering what having sex with someone of the same sex would be like, not "I want to have sex with someone of the same sex."

phish
December 22nd, 2010, 06:52 PM
You might think you're 'very well developed' but it doesn't necessarily mean that you are. There's a possibility it's just your hormones raging because of puberty. However if you're saying you like boys equally to girls, then you might be bisexual.

Only time will tell, but from what you've said I think you're bisexual and not bi-curious.

Yes, I am, now that may or nay not have to do with the question at hand, but I think I know how developed I am. I am bigger and much more developed than everyone at school, by a large amount.

Thanks guys, that pretty much confirms what I have thought. Here's my problem, I don't have a problem coming out because my parents won't mind, nor will my brother, but it'd by rather embarrassing to come out than 3 years later say "Oh, that yeah, I was wrong, I'm straight".

Kiko
December 22nd, 2010, 07:33 PM
Yes, I am, now that may or nay not have to do with the question at hand, but I think I know how developed I am. I am bigger and much more developed than everyone at school, by a large amount.

Thanks guys, that pretty much confirms what I have thought. Here's my problem, I don't have a problem coming out because my parents won't mind, nor will my brother, but it'd by rather embarrassing to come out than 3 years later say "Oh, that yeah, I was wrong, I'm straight".

If your parents don't mind then you might just want to tell them that you're struggling with whether or not you like guys :) Then you could maybe try dating some guys and figure out how you really feel.

Dunce
December 23rd, 2010, 10:31 AM
Yes, I am, now that may or nay not have to do with the question at hand, but I think I know how developed I am. I am bigger and much more developed than everyone at school, by a large amount.

Thanks guys, that pretty much confirms what I have thought. Here's my problem, I don't have a problem coming out because my parents won't mind, nor will my brother, but it'd by rather embarrassing to come out than 3 years later say "Oh, that yeah, I was wrong, I'm straight".

Well, if you really want to tell them you can just tell them that you're confused about your sexuality. Don't feel like you have to tell them yet. If you're not sure then don't be in a rush to come out.

Harley Quinn
December 23rd, 2010, 12:25 PM
Thanks guys, that pretty much confirms what I have thought. Here's my problem, I don't have a problem coming out because my parents won't mind, nor will my brother, but it'd by rather embarrassing to come out than 3 years later say "Oh, that yeah, I was wrong, I'm straight".

and that is exactly why you don't have to put a label on anything. Doesn't matter if you think you're only bi curious/sexual now, you have plenty of time put that sticker on your forehead so just go with the flow and if 3 years later you still want to have sex with guys and you still like both sexes, then yes, sure label yourself, but you REALLY don't need to.

Fishes
May 24th, 2011, 04:20 PM
it might go away most likely
its just curiosity even though u look like ur done with puberty, ur probably not