i hate my new little brother

[bean-from-ender-books]

OMG my parents adopted a kid i freaking hate him i cant stand him i think im gonna have to kill him or something...wat should i do

[Whisper]

If your mad at him because your jealous of the attention your parents are giving him and think hes replacing you
your wrong
they love you very much
besides imagine being in his shoes being thrown into a new house with all these strangers and there like were your new parents
and thats your new brother

i dout its easy for him either

My oldest sister is adopted
I love her as if she were my blood
she has her own son now a little boy
whom I will protect to my dying breath

You wont always get along
no sibblings do
like....ever
I fight with mine all the time
But I couldn't imagine a world without them

[Barelythere]

whisper thats so true, your so smart!!! :D

anyways, as wisper said, sibings never get along all the time, i love my brother and sister to bits and again will protect them untill i did no matter what, but it doesnt mean i dont like them a lot of the time!! :P

and think of him, he must b so scared being thrown into a new and scary world, im sure all he wants is your approval, and he is NOT replacing you! so dont even think it ok hun :hug: cya xoxo

[Bobby]

WHat specifically do you hate about him?

[megamikey59]

fine jeez.. i still hate him.. he hates his own brother.. that's just messed up..

[mRojas2000]

You should consider yourself pretty lucky... now you have a friend!! A friend which is going to be there for you, and is going to support you no matter what... he can't hate you... he doesn't know you... yet!! Be nice to him, don't let him hate you too, get along with him, and you won't even beleive how important he's gonna be for you :)

[Bobby]

i hate you -.- i don't give a shit if i get banned from here.. but if i ever see you.. idk what i'll do... well i do care if i get banned from here cause i need the help but i can find another stupid place to get help and hopefully YOU won't be there!

Please be nice.

[DIESEL]

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[thesphinx]

Hating is such a strong word, you should never "HATE" anything..

[Activate]

The people who accually "hate" grow up to be murderers.

Back to the topic, whats the age difference? If he is 10 or something then he would piss me off too xD

[angel'swillstayalive]

i alway have a go at my brother 4 sometime ihave though do i hate him no he went 2 camp the other week god i missed him like crazy but the most thing in the world that crushed me is he askedme do u hate me i felt like goin 2 my room and crying ohk we argue and stuff but in the end hes my brother in ur situation ohk hes adopted and u say u hate him why? is he annoying u can get passed that one day he will be away for a few days or something ull miss him and if u dont then u have a serious problem

[Hyper]

I dont realy understand.. most people find it so important that their child or brother/sister has their ''blood'' ''dna'' it doesnt realy matter whos blood or DNA they have, a parent to a child is some1 who raises her/him and a brother or sister to some1 is someone who acts like one, not just someone who has the same dna

[angel'swillstayalive]

i know i wouldnt care if my sister had the same blood as me its like ive known her all my life i will luv her no matter wat

[tomkapsalis]

To be honest I think you are incredibly selfish, as said in the above posts, hate is such a strong word. Maybe you just need time to adapt to having a little brother.
Tom

[some1]

i dont get why you hate your new brother so much. here is a child who finally gets a family and here you are screwing it up for him. im sorry to use those words, but you really are. Why wont you get to kno him, seeing that ur his brother now? is that so horrible to try to et to kno him?

[aryadorable]

Quit being selfish first off - it's good that they adopted a child - not only could they have saved that child from a horrible life but their setting a good example of compassion for others.



EXACTLY! you shouldnt be so shallow about it. altho i understand were your coming from. its kinda like haveing step sibling that you cant stand. your just going to have to learn to like him. its gunna be hard but just try. itl make your new family member alot happier and your parents to.

if your really that uncomferatble with it all talk to your parents about it. thats what they are there for.


Good luck

[TheWizard]

This is a tough issue for me because my family is so messed up. All I can say is try to get to know him and see how things work out. He's got to come to you on things like how to get your parents to let you do things, etc. You're his best resource.

[bean-from-ender-books]

one reason i hate him is i hate change and thats a freaking huge change.. another thing is he has MY bedroom that iv had since we moved here.... i hate him hes 11 im 15 in march... god i hate him hes so annoying he intentionally bugs me

[Bobby]

Do your parents know you feel this way?

Just try and make the best of things.

[bahari mtoto]

well u weren't real specific so illl try to help best i can.
I have a little brother too and i feel the exact same way sometimes but after a while u get used to him. if ur an only child ur probably not used to ur parents not paying a bunch of attention to u but younger kids need more attention so just let him have it. If the change really bugs u that much go to ur parents and tell them how u feel

I hope this helps u

[Giga Smashes]

I don't want to be mean or anything but, thats the thing about having a little brother or sister. Deal with it. They are going to annoy you, you can't have one of those perfect brother-brother relationships that you see on TV and stuff. Your going to argue with him, deal. It's part of life, you won't love everyone, and they won't always love you. So what you need to do is be the bigger person and be kind to him. He will realize that your trying to reach out to you, and do the same.