Please Help :( !!

[Bubbsy]

Hello

It would be great if you can help me. Last Saturday I went out with my company to celebrate Christmas. I am 18 years old and like anyone my age I drink more then I can handle. Anyway I tried to walk home but was falling over all over the place, I was on my own as well which did not help. I got half way home where I fell over again and could not get up because I was very drunk, I guy who is 28 helped me up and offered me a lift up. As I was very drunk I said yes but I think he took advantage of my state because he offered to give me a b*** Job. Now I am straight and have a gf but again because I was very drunk I think I said yes but cant remember. As I was so drunk I was unable to get a erection so he stopped but then he took down my number. The next day when I got woke up I could hardly remember the night before. Then I received a text on my phone from a number I had never seen before. It was him saying hope you got home ok.

This has now scared me into thinking what happens if I bump into him with all my mates and my girlfriend. Will he say anything! I am straight and I am 100 % sure of that. The problem is he works on the doors at local pubs and clubs him my area. I don’t want to me scared to go out but I defiantly don’t want him to say anything.

What do I do?

I text him telling him look I am straight thanks for the lift home though.

Please help!
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[Fiction]

If you can hardly remember the night before then how can you be sure these things happened?
I wouldn't worry about it too much, you where very drunk, people do things that are stupid and they regret. I'm sure you're gf would be much more upset if you did something with another girl tbh.

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[Bubbsy]

Thanks for the reply.

The problem is what happens if i see this guy out in town again when i am with all my mates.

do you think he will say anything?

[nick]

Thanks for the reply.

The problem is what happens if i see this guy out in town again when i am with all my mates.

do you think he will say anything?
Its unlikely he would say anything in front of other people. Would he really want them to know he'd tried to take advantage of you when you were very drunk, he could get beaten up for that.

[Bubbsy]

Good point.

So i should be ok? Never going to drink that much again!

Thanks for replying!

[GeneralCrash70]

Don't drink as much? I mean that'd be one solution... But as far as the whole random dude thing goes, ya, if he did what you said and offered you a bj, then he was tryinna take advantage of you, but like, the number thing, he was probably just makin sure you were safe, since you're only 18... It's one thing if he's only texted you once: thats basically common courtesy... If he keeps texting you, then he's being more than courteous; then you should be worried... But I wouldn't be worried about seein him again, because one, the odds are greatly against that happening, and two, if you happen to see him, just say 'thanks for helping me home, I appreciate it' and leave it at that with no room to let anything awkward happen... Soooooo, hope this helps bro.

[Bubbsy]

Yes i have learned not to drink as much or at least eat before i go out!

He did text me a couple of times asking he i wanted to meet up. I told him the truth saying i am straight but thanks for helping me home that night. As i said the problem is he does work in the town i go out in. so i will probably bump into him.

Hopfully though he wont say anything or ruin my life!!!

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