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MichaelAdams1993
December 21st, 2010, 10:44 PM
So about a year ago I came out as gay in my High School. This went over ok except for the few guys who are total jerks but we all know how that is. The problem is that since that I came out I don't have any guy friends at all. My group of friends is all girls. They were all very accepting and were so excited because now they had a guy that they could talk to and etc. etc. Now however they always seem to have plans and they don't let me know. I have to ask them if they wanna do this or that or ask if I can join them in something. I don't get invited along and all the stuff they talked about us doing now doesn't happen. I'ts begun to make me think they all lied about it. I just need some advice on what to do. I don't wanna be mad and seem selfish but I don't know what else to do right now.....

Contra
December 22nd, 2010, 10:36 AM
If it's making you feel bad you should talk to them, it's the only way I see that can help solve the problem. Ask them directly what's happening, or pick the one you're more comfortable with, if you don't want to talk with all of them.
I think that even though you're friends, you're still a boy, and there are stuff girls aren't comfortable sharing even with a close boy friend.

MichaelAdams1993
December 22nd, 2010, 12:16 PM
See now that's what I was thinking too. But they still talk about EVERYTHING in front of me anyways. So it seems like they are completely comfortable. So there I am stuck again...

Contra
December 22nd, 2010, 01:23 PM
Yeah, I see... Well, then you should do what I said on the first part of the comment to know what is the problem.