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REGRET
December 21st, 2010, 04:59 AM
I don't know if I should post this here but I don't know where else to post it.

It's just sometimes my sister drives me insane. I get so annoyed that I just want to cry and strangle her. I just wanna stab her or cut off her arm or something.

Is there something wrong with me, do I have a anger problem? Aren't you supposed to love your big sisters and all that junk, almost everything she says and does makes me wanna slap her.

Fiction
December 21st, 2010, 07:49 AM
It is pretty normal to get annoyed by brothers and sisters. Most siblings argue and get annoyed at each other. I don't think you have anger management issues. Most people find that however much they hate their siblings sometimes they do still love them deep down. Like how would you feel if something happened to her? Even if you don't love her deep down it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.

REGRET
December 21st, 2010, 08:11 AM
That's the thing. Somethimes I'm not sure if I would really care if something happened to her, all I want to do is to cause her pain sometimes...

closed
December 21st, 2010, 08:19 AM
Siblings fighting is really common. For you it sounds a bit more than that (same for me). Anyway i suggest you try to talk to her about it, and solve it as early as you can. It's really important. And yes, it's totally normal :)
p.m. if you need to talk about it :)

REGRET
December 21st, 2010, 05:26 PM
You can't talk to her. I've tried but she just jokes it off, she doesn't take me seriously, but I'll try as much as I can (:

Fiction
December 21st, 2010, 08:37 PM
How old is she may I ask?

REGRET
December 22nd, 2010, 09:28 AM
She's 18, three years older than me.

Fiction
December 22nd, 2010, 09:31 AM
Then she will be moving out soon? So you won't have to worry about it so much?

REGRET
December 25th, 2010, 10:53 AM
Well yeah, that's true. It's about six month until she moves out, I think I'll be able to stand it that long.

Fiction
December 25th, 2010, 03:40 PM
Good :) And good luck :)

Kaya
December 25th, 2010, 09:27 PM
You could try getting counceling together. That way you have a mediator and she'll most likely listen. It helped me and my sister a lot.

Weeping
December 26th, 2010, 10:28 AM
Good Luck! (:

And PM me if you ever need to talk! :D

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