Confused about oral sex (for guys & girls )

[jet7up]

Does a bj or cuni count as sex ??
Do you think that if i give and get oral sex from a guy , does it mean i had sex with this person , as 'there is no sexual intercourse :confused::confused:

[RadioPlayer]

Yes, a blow job counts as oral sex, but I would still consider you a virgin.

[Weeping]

Yeah, it counts, but you're still a virgin if you just have had oral.

:hug:

[nick]

I disagree, I wouldnt say you had had sex. Having sex means intercourse for me, vaginal or anal. Saying oral is sex is the same as saying masturbation is sex. They are all sexual acts involving stimulation of the genitals to achieve orgasm. But "having sex" has always meant intercourse.

[jbr926]

I disagree, I wouldnt say you had had sex. Having sex means intercourse for me, vaginal or anal. Saying oral is sex is the same as saying masturbation is sex. They are all sexual acts involving stimulation of the genitals to achieve orgasm. But "having sex" has always meant intercourse.

I agree ^^^^^^^^^^

[jet7up]

Thanks guys ! This is what i think , too
In my opinion, sex meant intercourse, too and stimulating each other to get an orgasm could be something different

[Lizzielikesboth]

to me its playing and foreplay but not sex

[usedtobejv]

I have had oral, but I still consider my self a virgin

[smitty35]

I think there is a difference btw actual sex and bj hj's

[wiip]

well, when we say oral, we're actually shortening down 'oral sexual intercourse', so it's technically sex, and I'd probably count it as so. It really depends on the circumstances... Like, if you were just experimenting with friends then I'd say it wasn't. But if you got really romantic-style with your bf and did it, I'd say it was :P

the ultimate test, I'd say, is if your physical virginity was broken. No hymen? It's sex. So I suppose oral wouldn't count...

Really, it's just technicalities. Stop worrying about whether it's got this name or that name and enjoy it! Not all of us get the privilege :P

[Fact]

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the ultimate test, I'd say, is if your physical virginity was broken. No hymen? It's sex. So I suppose oral wouldn't count...


Wrong.

Oral = using your mouth to pleasure your partners' genitals.

Intercourse = penis in vagina (with or without hymen breaking, makes no difference).

[tyler007]

Well i think that its a fun thing to do and feels great... but i really dont consider it sex.
I know its oral sex And i have given and recieved but i still consider myself a virgin.

[Tyler1]

Well i think that its a fun thing to do and feels great... but i really dont consider it sex.
I know its oral sex And i have given and recieved but i still consider myself a virgin.

Wow, u sound like fun. I'd like to try it.

[Nilnoc]

Oral Sex is Sex. Period.
But a virgin is someone who has not had vaginal intercourse.

[Honey_Honey]

Oral Sex is Sex. Period.
But a virgin is someone who has not had vaginal intercourse.

I agree... :)