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curse
December 20th, 2010, 10:40 AM
Ever since i was young i was beaten up by my parents and it still continues..
I have tried hitting my father and stuff like that but as it seems it dosent work..
My mother hates me everytime something happens she calls my father and she watches how he beats me.
I have tried almost everything to convince them to stop it but nothing works...
:( my only deffence now is a tazer that i have to keep my father away from me..
and that wont last long .
laurita_21
December 20th, 2010, 10:42 AM
And you have never told anyone about this? You need to tell the police. You can't fight this all by yourself. At least tell your school councelor or an sdult that can help. Good luck!
curse
December 20th, 2010, 11:18 AM
I tried to do police and they came and got them for 24 hours...
The other day its like it never happened... and the councelor wont help
becouse my parents dont give a
[email protected]#$ about what they say...
Tadgh
December 20th, 2010, 11:24 AM
Have you got any relatives you can talk too?
Blaster
December 20th, 2010, 11:33 AM
Call the police again and tell them every single detail. Don't give up on this. Make complaints till they get you out of that situation. If you can't convicne the police tell other adults about your problem and that you need urgent help. I think you can convice the police by yourself. Don't give up.
curse
December 20th, 2010, 12:31 PM
i will try that .. Thank you all for the advice
brandon.t
December 20th, 2010, 09:16 PM
get as much evidence as posssible. After a beating call the police while you still have the proof on you and tell them every detail
Weeping
December 21st, 2010, 11:02 AM
I know what that's like. You can always talk to me if you want/need to. (:
But well, don't give up on the police. Continue with calling them every time something gets wrong.
In the end, they'll have to do something about it.
And if you need support etc. talk to a friend or adult that you really trust.
You have to get out of this!
:hug:
curse
December 22nd, 2010, 12:34 PM
I know what that's like. You can always talk to me if you want/need to. (:
But well, don't give up on the police. Continue with calling them every time something gets wrong.
In the end, they'll have to do something about it.
And if you need support etc. talk to a friend or adult that you really trust.
You have to get out of this!
:hug:
Thanks i tried calling the police and they came and arrested em for 24 hours.
2 Days now and they havent beaten me up yet :)
Nihilus
December 28th, 2010, 05:46 PM
Call child protection services. The police are okay to call, but really, if you have been continuously beaten call child protection services. I'm sorry for what you have to go through.
ShatteredWings
December 28th, 2010, 05:57 PM
How old are you? Maybe it's tiem to think about moving out
Family and Friends -> Abuse
polkagurl
December 30th, 2010, 02:43 AM
be careful with parents. i don't think they hate you but yeah that's messed up what they are doing. i'm glad you called the police! if they keep on doing it keep on calling, and yeah if anything start thinking about another place to live. extended family? friends? maybe your own place if you can afford it? just be careful :)
Syvelocin
December 30th, 2010, 03:25 AM
Never let it go without telling. I know it's hard. I didn't go to anyone. I never have. You don't want to just put up with it. Whether it's a relative, a friend, an emergency hotline, tell someone and get out of this situation hun. The scars are deeper when you stay silent, trust me. And they'll never go away otherwise.
Take care :hug:
mzhockey1696
December 30th, 2010, 10:04 PM
I am sorry to hear about this, maybe talk to some relitives or live with a friend until the problem is resolved.
Grid
December 31st, 2010, 01:36 AM
Call the police again and tell them every single detail. Don't give up on this. Make complaints till they get you out of that situation. If you can't convicne the police tell other adults about your problem and that you need urgent help. I think you can convice the police by yourself. Don't give up.
This. Tell the police. Or other adults.
Lmaodude
December 31st, 2010, 04:12 AM
Sorry about that dude. You need to call someone or talk to a consuler or maybe CPS. Hope everything gets better..
TheSingingBird
January 10th, 2011, 01:19 AM
Take pictures of any physical injuries that are inflicted on you, write this down in a journal with dates and times, and call the police.
Weeping
January 10th, 2011, 12:00 PM
Thanks i tried calling the police and they came and arrested em for 24 hours.
2 Days now and they havent beaten me up yet :)
Good! (:
How's it going now?
:hug:
curse
January 11th, 2011, 11:38 AM
Good! (:
How's it going now?
:hug:
They did it again yesturday but with more force then the last time..
I have bloody scars all over my arms , head and leg...
and all becouse i was playin till 8 PM but usually im up all night on MW 2 and
they dont say anything....
Fiction
January 11th, 2011, 12:10 PM
You really need to contact the authorities again.
Syvelocin
January 11th, 2011, 03:41 PM
Please, do contact someone again. It's not right, and my heart is breaking for you, because I've been in that situation. Because I never told, it didn't stop until I moved out and back to live with my mum instead. Then there was no proof. All they could know was that my guardian was an alcoholic, but there was nothing saying she abused me. The long-term affects, even after it's over, really take a toll on you. You need to get out of this situation hun.
Myrnodin
January 11th, 2011, 10:23 PM
I have to second the question. How old are you? Maybe moving out is not the solution, but running away. Not like "join the circus". I mean like, get out of home and get to a shelter. (Like the ones or churches) Stay there. (Do tell your school counselor or some other adult about it) Refuse to go back to that house. (Its your right) If police isnt doing anything (24h arrest? you gotta be kidding me) try other instances, there must be some sort of child protection agency/department in your country, hit them up. Just make it stop. If the "good" way isnt working. The bad way. You had the guts for fighting back physically, i believe you can do it intellectually now.
Best of luck,
- Josh
nikole95
January 13th, 2011, 04:49 AM
This. Tell the police. Or other adults.
Sorry about that dude. You need to call someone or talk to a consuler or maybe CPS. Hope everything gets better..
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