Starting A Relationship

[StJude217]

Ok so, there is a girl I like and I have her number and we have texted for short periods of time a couple of times but nothing major. Anyway she doesn't know that I like her and idk if she likes me or not...and here is my question.... How can i start a conversation with her that starts off casual and friendly but ends up with me telling her that I like her. Something that won't creep her out or make her think that I am stalking her.

Thanks.

[Preacher]

-Ask her something about the place/event/... you know eachother from. Like if she's going to your school ask her something about schoolwork.
-Go to her facebook and 'like' some nice pictures of her that others don't like and post a little comment about how good she looks or about what you can tell from the picture.

goodluck! ;)

[StJude217]

That sounds a little stalkerish (no offense)...the school thing would be a great idea except she is a year younger than me so I am in a different building ha. But the liking the picture thing looks like I am "watching" her every move...but who knows it might work. Thanks

[Daniel_]

"Hey can I ask you something?"

"Sure, what?"

"Well.. I really like you, and I was kind of wondering if you maybe felt the same".


/thread.

[Aves]

"Hey can I ask you something?"

"Sure, what?"

"Well.. I really like you, and I was kind of wondering if you maybe felt the same".


/thread.

This conversation rarely ends up happening, or working out with the answer the person asking wants. It puts pressure on the person being asked, puts them on the spot. So they might not answer truthfully. On top of that, he might get nervous asking, like most teenage boys would.

My suggestion, just keep talking to her, and if you two are meant to have a relationship, it will happen.

[Daniel_]

This conversation rarely ends up happening, or working out with the answer the person asking wants. It puts pressure on the person being asked, puts them on the spot. So they might not answer truthfully. On top of that, he might get nervous asking, like most teenage boys would.

Not if the person being asked likes you back. If the person being asked doesn't like you, you'll get a no any way you put it. This is just a quicker, more to the point way of getting down to what your getting down to.



My suggestion, just keep talking to her, and if you two are meant to have a relationship, it will happen.

How would this be, if neither one of them asked the other out? Just talking wont get you into a relationship. Someone, somewhere, will eventually have to ask out the other.

[rextoystory]

Well it's almost Christmas, ask her about her plans :) Or you could try asking her what she likes the most of the holidays...

Good luck!

[StJude217]

Well guys I tried it and it didn't really work...(sigh).....She said that was really sweet and that she thought she might have feelings for me too, but she couldn't stop thinking about the hurt that her ex gave her so she said she was scared and when I tried to talk to her and make her feel better she just eventually quit talking to me at all.....

[babyhottie]

awww im sorry i think u should move on and things happen for a reason u might find a better person... Best of luck :D