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nick
December 18th, 2010, 04:46 AM
Two 14-year-olds have become Britain’s youngest parents.

April Webster became pregnant by her boyfriend, Nathan Fishbourne, when she was 13.

She gave birth to the couple’s son, Jamie, four weeks ago.

The pair are now negotiating over the baby’s custody arrangements.

Jamie currently lives with April and her parents in Caerphilly, South Wales, but Nathan has said he would like to care for the child at weekends.

The couple started seeing each other when they were aged 13 and in the same year at St Cenydd School in Caerphilly.

They started having unprotected sex shortly after their relationship began in September last year, but April said she did not tell her parents because she was “too embarrassed”.

She discovered she was pregnant a day before her 14th birthday and gave birth to Jamie by pre-arranged caesarean section on November 15.

The young mother told The Sun: “Jamie wasn’t planned but I’m going to be a great mum for him. He’s perfect and I’m going to give him everything he ever wants.”

Nathan said: “I’m just so happy being a dad. When I see Jamie I do things for him like any dad. I help change him and stuff.”

He added: “I’d love to see him at weekends and April can have him five days during the week.”

Nathan’s mother, Julie, said: “I was angry at first but now I’ve bought a cot, a baby seat, a stairgate – everything for a little baby”.

Jamie was born with a malformed oesophagus which initially hindered his feeding, but he was declared healthy after an operation and 11 days in hospital.

He is now being bottle fed by April, with the help of her 17-year-old sister, Robyn, who shares her bedroom.

April said that the arrangements for Jamie’s care still had not been finalised, adding that Nathan’s desire to look after the baby overnight at his family home had “caused some arguments”.

Her mother, Maria, said: “It was a big shock at first, but we let April make the decision on whether to go through with it.

“Now he has arrived we’re glad she did. He’s my first grandson and so beautiful.”

Britain's youngest mother, Tressa Middleton, became pregnant at 11 and gave birth aged 12 in Edinburgh in 2006.

The youngest father on record is Sean Stewart, of Bedford, who became a father at the age of 12 in 1998.

The UK has the highest teenage pregnancy rate in Europe.


Source (http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/8211040/Two-14-year-olds-become-Britians-youngest-parents.html)

Perseus
December 18th, 2010, 11:15 AM
Jesus Christ. Y'alls' youngins get busy a lot, don't they?

The Dark Lord
December 18th, 2010, 12:06 PM
Congratulations to both April and Nathan, who in one moment of madness have destroyed their lives and the life of their son Jamie

Jess
December 18th, 2010, 12:20 PM
so what about school......

DarkHorses
December 18th, 2010, 12:22 PM
I feel bad for the baby mostly, It's really sad that he has to be raised by two irresponsible teenagers who don't know the first thing about taking care of a baby. Not to mention they've now ruined their own lives by having a child at such a young age. Seriously, sex at thirteen? That's just sick. They need some hobbies.

Fact
December 18th, 2010, 12:33 PM
Jesus Christ. Y'alls' youngins get busy a lot, don't they?

Only the irresponsible ones.

Congratulations to both April and Nathan, who in one moment of madness have destroyed their lives and the life of their son Jamie

Indeed, there should be an award for such an achievement.

so what about school......

They obviously don't care about education, so meh. Who cares?

I feel bad for the baby mostly, It's really sad that he has to be raised by two irresponsible teenagers who don't know the first thing about taking care of a baby. Not to mention they've now ruined their own lives by having a child at such a young age. Seriously, sex at thirteen? That's just sick. They need some hobbies.

Exactly.


This is why I want to achieve some sort of international degree and get FAR away from this damn country.

Suicune
December 18th, 2010, 12:53 PM
"See mommy up there Jamie? She's getting her high school diploma!"
Oh kids.

RAWWR
December 18th, 2010, 01:35 PM
They're a bit young :/ But omg. I want kids so bad :/

The Dark Lord
December 18th, 2010, 01:36 PM
They're a bit young :/ But omg. I want kids so bad :/

Why? You are nowhere near the age to have kids yet

Fact
December 18th, 2010, 01:41 PM
They're a bit young :/ But omg. I want kids so bad :/

No, you don't.

Why? You are nowhere near the age to have kids yet

Indeed she isn't.


In my opinion, it's selfish to have a child because you want one at such a young age, where you have no incomes nor resources and can't give a baby the quality of life and stability it needs. Whoever the father is most likely won't be around, it'd prevent your life from going anywhere as you'd be unable to continue education effectively and therefore no decent job awaits you, which puts strain on your parents if they support you and also on the government who would give you benefits.

So basically, by having a child at a ridiculous age, you are harming yourself, the child and the country.
Summary? Don't have kids young.

Jess
December 18th, 2010, 01:55 PM
They're a bit young :/ But omg. I want kids so bad :/

no, you don't want to have kids, not now, anyways. you can have them when you're a lot older. if you have kids now, it'll ruin everything, like your education for example


personally I don't want kids at all

nick
December 18th, 2010, 01:57 PM
People from other countries could be forgiven for thinking we have no sex education in this country, but that's not true at all. I doubt if there's a single 13 year old in normal education that doesnt know the facts of life and understand the risks of unprotected sex. Its easy to get hold of free condoms. These kids are just stupid!

Fact
December 18th, 2010, 01:58 PM
They're a bit young :/ But omg. I want kids so bad :/

no, you don't want to have kids, not now, anyways. you can have them when you're a lot older.

IMO she should wait at least 10 years from now before kids.

Donkey
December 18th, 2010, 02:01 PM
I'm patriotic and shit, I don't think we should judge the UK on it. Some 8 year old had a baby in Spain as I remember, but that's just a very vague recollection lol. Regardless, a few centuries ago (actually only one or two) kids were expected to get married at this age.

Amnesiac
December 18th, 2010, 04:18 PM
This is fucking insane. These kids have officially ruined their lives before their lives have even started. They'll forever be an embarrassment to their country and looked down upon as some stupid teenagers who couldn't use a fucking condom.

Zazu
December 18th, 2010, 04:45 PM
Uneducated, stupid slut.

I blame the parents to an extent.

NeverTooLate
December 18th, 2010, 06:01 PM
Can't kids keep it in their pants?

The Joker
December 18th, 2010, 07:52 PM
How did they know where to put it?

Sage
December 18th, 2010, 10:28 PM
How did they know where to put it?

I don't know about you, but I figured things out (http://ny-image2.etsy.com/il_fullxfull.113205922.jpg) rather early on in my life.

Sith Lord 13
December 19th, 2010, 04:36 PM
IMO she should wait at least 10 years from now before kids.

Seeing as she doesn't have her age listed, she could potentially be 19. Do you feel people have to wait until their 30s to have kids?

Fact
December 19th, 2010, 04:40 PM
Seeing as she doesn't have her age listed, she could potentially be 19. Do you feel people have to wait until their 30s to have kids?

I assumed that she was less than 16, making her less than 26 in ten years time.

Fiction
December 19th, 2010, 05:03 PM
I assumed that she was less than 16, making her less than 26 in ten years time.

it's says she is 14?

The fact that they didn't use a condom is ridiculous. If it had been an accident i would have understood. I'm not going to judge for the age they chose to have sex. They're choice. But the fact they didn't use a condom shows they where too immature to be having sex.
Accidents happen and it's unfair of people to judge, but irrisponsibilty is unforgivable. Especially when it involves the life of another person. This is what gives british teenagers a bad name, and means that people are judgemental of anyone who has sex underage.

Fact
December 19th, 2010, 05:06 PM
They're a bit young :/ But omg. I want kids so bad :/

it's says she is 14?


He was referring to Nicole ↑

Sith Lord 13
December 19th, 2010, 05:51 PM
I assumed that she was less than 16, making her less than 26 in ten years time.

Even still, why so old? So long as you have a job and can support yourself, what's wrong with getting pregnant at 20/21/22? Especially once you're out of college, the sooner the better.

Fact
December 19th, 2010, 06:00 PM
Even still, why so old? So long as you have a job and can support yourself, what's wrong with getting pregnant at 20/21/22? Especially once you're out of college, the sooner the better.

Because, IMO, you haven't lived enough at 20/21/22 in order to be prepared to raise a child effectively, for numerous reasons.

Sith Lord 13
December 20th, 2010, 10:27 AM
Because, IMO, you haven't lived enough at 20/21/22 in order to be prepared to raise a child effectively, for numerous reasons.

I disagree, but I feel anymore is off topic. If you care enough to debate it, we'll take it to a thread in ROTW?

Jess
December 20th, 2010, 11:24 AM
I disagree too, but I made a thread so let's take it there

Kingbodz
June 27th, 2012, 11:50 PM
I have given up on my generation

Mirage
June 28th, 2012, 12:18 AM
Please don't bump old threads.

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