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XxMurderedKissesxX
December 17th, 2010, 11:42 PM
So alittle while back I met this guy...And I told him about my SH. Now he always asks about it. Like why I did it, what set me off Ext. The friendship is bittersweet. I like helping him & he seems to like helping me, but sometimes we stress eachother out to the point that it becomes a trigger. Idunno what to do, He wants to stop and I try to help but I dont always know what to say or I run out of ideas to give him, then I feel like its my fault because I wasnt good enough if he ends up caving. And when he trys to talk about it with me in person, I freeze up and everything gets akward to where we cant even have small conversation. Hes shown me his arm & such. I want to do the same, but its just that shyness is getting in the way. Whut should I do?

TakeToTheSkies.
December 18th, 2010, 01:14 AM
He's probably just looking out for you. He wants to help, or he probably wants to talk about it. This kind of thing is extremely hard to reveal, even if the other person does it. Believe me. And if you want to show him your arm, do it. Do it without thinking about it and it'll be much easier. It should break down the wall of sort of uneasiness and discomfort, and bring you guys closer, kinda like a weird way of bonding. :P