SilentlyScreaming
December 17th, 2010, 09:21 AM
Hello again! I posted a thread a few weeks back about my boyfriend,I think he's using me. http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=89609
Anyway - So were supposed to hang out this weekend and he WANTS TO HAVE SEX. He made that pretty effin' clear. I told him I'm not ready and he keeps.pushing.it.
He said "Well I think you're ready,we should try" what a bunch of bull. " I want to make love to you and whisper in you ear I love you". "We should try this weekend,even if its a little bit"
Am I missing something? Did I not just say I wasnt ready! Our entire relationship is crap. Its not based on being able to talk to someone,but how full of lust we are for eachother. We have nothing in common! Were the same personality types in two different worlds. I mean, if we get into a conversation about certain things we clash constantly. I know there's no way in the world I will ever marry him.
I'm 17,he's 24 (stupid....I know...) and I think he think's he can do this because he thinks I dont tell anyone. My best friend knows about him,she hates his guts. It's like I know what I need to do but I'm afraid.
I've met his parents,and even his mom has told him - "You're going to hurt her!". But its not enough... You'd think if he even cared he would over see his lust ?
I dont want to break up with him before christmas,although sometimes I think he deserves it. Theres no doubt in my mind that I love him,for what reasons Im not sure. All I know is if someone loves you,they dont push you into doing stuff you dont like. They damn sure dont lie to you either.
I needed to vent this out. Opinions ?
Anyway - So were supposed to hang out this weekend and he WANTS TO HAVE SEX. He made that pretty effin' clear. I told him I'm not ready and he keeps.pushing.it.
He said "Well I think you're ready,we should try" what a bunch of bull. " I want to make love to you and whisper in you ear I love you". "We should try this weekend,even if its a little bit"
Am I missing something? Did I not just say I wasnt ready! Our entire relationship is crap. Its not based on being able to talk to someone,but how full of lust we are for eachother. We have nothing in common! Were the same personality types in two different worlds. I mean, if we get into a conversation about certain things we clash constantly. I know there's no way in the world I will ever marry him.
I'm 17,he's 24 (stupid....I know...) and I think he think's he can do this because he thinks I dont tell anyone. My best friend knows about him,she hates his guts. It's like I know what I need to do but I'm afraid.
I've met his parents,and even his mom has told him - "You're going to hurt her!". But its not enough... You'd think if he even cared he would over see his lust ?
I dont want to break up with him before christmas,although sometimes I think he deserves it. Theres no doubt in my mind that I love him,for what reasons Im not sure. All I know is if someone loves you,they dont push you into doing stuff you dont like. They damn sure dont lie to you either.
I needed to vent this out. Opinions ?