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Cameron R
December 16th, 2010, 10:53 AM
I am bi-curious, and there is a guy I know that I would like to get get to know a little better... I am just afraid that word will spread and I will be hated. Any help on what I should do?

Tristin.
December 16th, 2010, 12:52 PM
well, start out with small chat, become a friend first, then take it from there. Dont just say "hi im bi" dont tell him until your pretty sure he will not mind or will accept it :)

willrod
December 16th, 2010, 03:57 PM
Don't just jump in and mention stuff that you'll regret. That's my best advice for anyone, really. Just start talking to him, get to know him- maybe you guys will end up being good friends. And of course, having close friends is a blessing when it comes to reaching out for acceptance of your sexual orientation. But just don't say anything that you're afraid will spread until after you guys have become good friends. Hope everything goes well :)

Brandon.
December 17th, 2010, 12:59 PM
Don't just jump in and mention stuff that you'll regret. That's my best advice for anyone, really. Just start talking to him, get to know him- maybe you guys will end up being good friends. And of course, having close friends is a blessing when it comes to reaching out for acceptance of your sexual orientation. But just don't say anything that you're afraid will spread until after you guys have become good friends. Hope everything goes well :)

This sums it up, well both of them do, couldn't have said it better myself.

Shenron
December 17th, 2010, 02:47 PM
I agree with the others here. You don't want to just burst out and say "hey i'm bi". You should talk to him, get to know him a little better. Become friends and spend some time together. Make sure he will accept you before you say anything.

Cudder
December 17th, 2010, 03:20 PM
I agree with xxtristonxx

whereismymind
December 17th, 2010, 04:54 PM
Get to the point where your friends (like triston said) and tell him when your friends and you trust each other and see where that takes you.

Cameron R
December 18th, 2010, 08:33 PM
Thanks for all the help guys :) Ill try to talk to him, see how that goes.

-Merry Christmas-

Tristin.
December 18th, 2010, 08:35 PM
ok, i know this is a little off topic, but can nobody spell my name? O.o
and good luck cameron :D

TDjinN95
December 18th, 2010, 09:04 PM
ok, i know this is a little off topic, but can nobody spell my name? O.o

XxTristinxX
There, happy now?