17 and No First Kiss

[chrism52]

Hi, I'm 17 and yet to have my first kiss is that ok? :confused:

I haven't even held hands with a girl let alone date them. :(

Is there anybody here that's still waiting for your first kiss?
State your age please.

[Fact]

My boyfriend (ironically) is 17 and has never been kissed before, nor held hands.

I don't think there's anything wrong with that at all (but of course I'm going to be biased). There is nothing 'wrong' with not having kissed someone before, it'll just make the experience even more special when you DO find someone who wants to kiss you and you kiss for the first time.

[Jess]

neither have I. and I'm 16. neither has my older brother, who's the same age as you. neither of us has dated

[Mike321]

I'm 18 and in the same position as you
So your not on your own

[steve1234]

I have never had my first kiss, and I haven't even held hands....i'm 18. You really are not alone. Its better to be patient, rather than to follow the 'norm' and rush into a relationship.

[Aves]

It's perfectly fine to be 17 and never have kissed someone. I was 16 when I had my first kiss, and some people think that's late. I think later is better than the 11 year old kids who just throw themselves out there for everyone.

[Fact]

It's perfectly fine to be 17 and never have kissed someone. I was 16 when I had my first kiss, and some people think that's late. I think later is better than the 11 year old kids who just throw themselves out there for everyone.

Absolutely. I remember when I was 10 a girl who was the same age as me came to school in a thong... it was pretty sickening. Slightly off topic, but still, it's better to wait and make it meaningful than kiss or even go further with anyone that comes your way.

[Shenron]

I agree with the others. It is better to wait until you meet someone you want to be with. You dont want to run around dating and kissing people because that is what everyone else is doing, you want to be ready, and you want to find the right person.

[Brandon.]

there is nothing wrong with that, honestly.

[Preacher]

There's nothing wrong with that, but neither is experimenting at young age, if you've already had some relationships you 'll know what type of guy/girl fit with you.

[Punannannan]

I just turned 17 and I haven't kissed anyone yet, and there's nothing wrong with that.

[jockboy14]

sometimes your high school just has sucky chicks, i feel ya. thats how mine is. all the good ones are taken and the rest are blahh. just keep on with ur head up bro, you dont have to rush it.

[Jagster]

I've never had my first kiss. A lot of my friends have had theirs but I haven't.

[Honey_Honey]

Ah, well I am in the same boat! Its frustrating but then you see many relationships going wrong or ending after realizing they've never liked the person anyway its sad but tells me to wait till it feels right.I guess not all relationships will work but I don't think I'm quite ready to handle someone else as well as myself.. Not yet. Even at 16.

[msbrooklyn]

i wish i had waited to have my first kiss :( my first kiss was when i was 10 thinking back it was totally gross and i didnt even like the guy. wait until you find someone you really like :)

[Socio]

I'm actually going to have to disagree with most people here. I myself am 18 never kissed, dated, or done anything with a girl. And i've probably only gotten a text from 1 girl in the past 1-2 years. Most people are saying to wait blah blah blah... But that is all opinion that i don't necesarily believe in. I think it is sad and i often get depressed that i never have any contact with girls. We are teenagers and this should be our time to experience life and create relationships. Now i'm not saying we should be going around and having sex with anyone, but we should be teenagers and experiment a little or just live life.

You guys don't have to agree and some will not, but for me it is saddening to see my life progress when i am unable to take advantage of all it has to offer. And not to mention that my friends make fun of me about it or call me gay :/

[jockboy14]

Socio is right. Go out, have fun, make friends, do what feels right, don't think about it, don't have regrets. Now, I was in the OPs shoes for a while. I've had girlfriends before, but didn't have anything serious. Then just spontaneously made out with this chick who I liked earlier this year. Yea it was awesome, but after that when I learned that she was a whore, it was like wow that sucks. And I felt really bad, I did regret it for a while. But now I don't really care. So what? It was fun while it lasted, but it is what it is.

[Nihilus]

Dude your not alone. Im 16 and have never kissed a girl, held their hands (besides in a dance class in middle school), or dated one. Its not weird. Like the guy said above, go out and have fun. Its okay not to have kissed a girl yet.

[Muscleteen92]

The kissing and relationships will come eventually. Be patient.

[Fushigi]

lol im 17 and havent experienced such stuffs.... just live life to the fullest :)

[XxHaViiK]

I'm 17 and haven't yet. Mainly because I'm waiting for it to be the perfect time. The best girl for me. If that ever happens, I'll be happy I didn't go suck face with every girl I could find. It'll be that much better.

[eatthis9999]

My School i'm only 15 but 90% odd have had a GF at about 13-14 and it realy dont help that your on the sports scene so i'm the Only one not to of had a GF, First kiss ETC but most of them are in their 4/5 Relationship :/

[lipstick_kisses23]

I had a friend who was 22 and had no type of contact with the opposite sex because he was really shy, one day he decided to go out with me and a couple of my friends and all in that same night he made out with two girls, danced (aka dry sexed) with a couple of my friends, got numerous lap dances by drunk women, and got a BJ from my best friend. It can come when you least expect it TRUST me

[Ghost_Hunter]

I'm 18 and haven't kissed or held hands with a girl.

[polkagurl]

i was in the same boat as you 3 months ago. i thought that i would never get my first kiss and that guys just are crappy in my area. but listen .... i waited sucha long time and i had the ULTIMATE BEST first kiss experience of my life ! :) it's much better to wait and have an awesome experience than just have a shitty first kiss. don't be ashamed or sad about it. i promise you, once you have it, it will be an unreal feeling and it's better to save it when you are 15,16,17, or 18. really ! i am 16 and i felt like i suck becuase i didnt have my first kiss but when it happened ! OH BOY ! was it ever perfect ! i couldn't ask for better ! keep your head high, you'll find an awesome girl and you will kiss someone soon !

[XxHaViiK]

I had a friend who was 22 and had no type of contact with the opposite sex because he was really shy, one day he decided to go out with me and a couple of my friends and all in that same night he made out with two girls, danced (aka dry sexed) with a couple of my friends, got numerous lap dances by drunk women, and got a BJ from my best friend. It can come when you least expect it TRUST me

Wow, that's crazy :eek:

[Jenna.]

There's nothing wrong with you! Plenty of people haven't kissed anyone yet. Just be patient, it's better to wait for a meaningful first kiss then to just throw it away on some random girl.

[Weeping]

Just.. Wait for the right person! That will make it 500 times more special. :D

:hug:

[Cryofthewolf]

Yes, it's fine. If I remember correctly, I haven't had a real kiss yet, and I'm nineteen.

Try not to look for it, or make it happen. Wait for the girl/boy to come to you and, when it is the right time, it will happen.

Good luck! =-)

[Costa]

I'm 16 and have never had a kiss or a girlfriend unfortunately.

[Benny.]

Hi, I'm 17 and yet to have my first kiss is that ok? :confused:

I haven't even held hands with a girl let alone date them. :(

Is there anybody here that's still waiting for your first kiss?
State your age please.

I'm 16 and I haven't kissed anyone yet either, but that will change within the next two weeks :P Seeing as I started going out with someone last night :)

[ThatScience]

I'm 16 (nearly 17) and have only been kissed once. I don't like to think about it, though because I was kinda desperate and didn't really like her or connect with her on an emotional level.

I'd like to think of myself as never-been-kissed despite the fact that it is an outright fabrication. I'd like to wait for someone special to share my "first kiss" with.

[obsessivedisorder]

I just turned 17 this month and I got my first kiss 3 days after my 17th birthday. Let me tell you, there's nothing to be ashamed of and no reason to be disappointed. I knew from a young age I wanted my first kiss to be special and with someone I really liked. I wanted to look back on it and be able to say I didn't regret it at all. Honestly, be glad yours isn't because of some stupid spin the bottle game or doing it to get it over with or with some random person. Having my first kiss mean something was one of the best choices I ever made and I hope you feel the same.

[Katiya]

Me neither. Nothing to be ashamed about. I actually respect you for it ;)

[CharlieHorse]

I'm 16, and never kissed, or been in a real relationship.
I don't see myself doing any of those anytime soon.
I don't know what to do with myself.

[Shannon.]

I'm 16 and I haven't kissed anyone either. I haven't even really dated anyone, honestly. I'd like to do both, but I'm not in a rush. I'm waiting for someone who's right for me.

[Lost in the Echo]

I just turned 17 this month and I got my first kiss 3 days after my 17th birthday. Let me tell you, there's nothing to be ashamed of and no reason to be disappointed. I knew from a young age I wanted my first kiss to be special and with someone I really liked. I wanted to look back on it and be able to say I didn't regret it at all. Honestly, be glad yours isn't because of some stupid spin the bottle game or doing it to get it over with or with some random person. Having my first kiss mean something was one of the best choices I ever made and I hope you feel the same.

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