View Full Version : Being Bullied...
Pudd
December 14th, 2010, 03:44 PM
Today I got home after school and commented on a picture on Facebook that one of my friends posted, then a person from school replied with verbal abuse. Another person joined in.
I've had trouble with them for about 4 years now. But they've never been this bad to me.
So, this Conor and Calum carried on long after this screen shot. They were continuing to say how because of my hair and appearance I had no friends, and never will. Yes I have spots, yes I have braces and yes I have long hair, but I look after it. This seems to be the only reason for them abusing me like this.
They also throw food at me at lunch.
I don't know what to do...
Fiction
December 14th, 2010, 06:06 PM
Some people are twats like that.
How long has this been going on for? If not long you could try and ignore them and see if they leave you alone.
If this is more longer term maybe you should tell a teacher or a parent?
Fact
December 14th, 2010, 06:08 PM
If this is more longer term maybe you should tell a teacher or a parent?
↑ this.
Also, have you thought about deleting them off social networking systems such as Facebook so they don't have that kind of access to abuse you? That could stop this tormenting from following you home.
scuba steve
December 14th, 2010, 06:22 PM
If they are twats, which is evidential enough why talk to them altogether never mind on Facebook. They're not worth your time, people like this will constantly appear throughout your life, you just have to learn some method of dealing with the stress and anger it causes in effecient methods (physical activity I would most highly recommend)
secondly I don't understand why alot of British people have a hatred towards red hair, it baffles me.
Pudd
December 15th, 2010, 01:47 PM
It's been going on for about 3 years.
I blocked them both. About 2 years ago, I told the head what was going on and they stopped for about a month, then it's been carrying on ever since.
Fact
December 15th, 2010, 01:49 PM
It's been going on for about 3 years.
I blocked them both. About 2 years ago, I told the head what was going on and they stopped for about a month, then it's been carrying on ever since.
Alert the head teacher again.
If this is a repeat offence, then more action should be taken against them to get them to stop making your life hell.
Keep pressing the matter, don't back down from it, eventually you WILL be rid of them, one way or another.
Pudd
December 15th, 2010, 02:22 PM
I could just wait for them to leave next year.
I've gone this long, how hard could it be...
Fact
December 15th, 2010, 02:32 PM
I could just wait for them to leave next year.
I've gone this long, how hard could it be...
What's to say they won't get worse?
Why should you have to put up for it for another year if you've done nothing wrong?
It could begin affecting your school work as well as your general happiness, they deserve to be put in their place, so get help in putting them there!
TheMatrix
December 16th, 2010, 01:26 AM
and this is exactly why i don't use facebook. i kinda take stuff too seriously. sometimes even this forum and some of its members.....how do i put this......make me mad.
and by the way, why were there all those black boxes in the picture?
Scarface
December 16th, 2010, 08:04 AM
and this is exactly why i don't use facebook. i kinda take stuff too seriously. sometimes even this forum and some of its members.....how do i put this......make me mad.
and by the way, why were there all those black boxes in the picture?
To protect the anonymity of the other guys and last names as that isn't required information as we may or may not know them :P
You should definitely tell someone about this. Even though it's on the internet, it could flow over into real life again and it's not always going to get better. You don't need to be a door mat for anyone. Stay optimistic, but don't put full faith in people as they may not stop unless you have someone at your school handle it. Especially seeing as you said it's been going on for 4 years now, I think enough is definitely enough.
Pudd
December 18th, 2010, 01:06 PM
To protect the anonymity of the other guys and last names as that isn't required information as we may or may not know them :P
You should definitely tell someone about this. Even though it's on the internet, it could flow over into real life again and it's not always going to get better. You don't need to be a door mat for anyone. Stay optimistic, but don't put full faith in people as they may not stop unless you have someone at your school handle it. Especially seeing as you said it's been going on for 4 years now, I think enough is definitely enough.
Last time it was on the internet too. It was about joining a gaming group that I made with a bunch of friends, then left. Then those people joined it, I was joking around with my friends about re-joining and then they started going at me.
I told my parents about that. One of the others were at me because I'm English (Currently living in Scotland). I told my cousin about that, she spoke to them and they stopped.
Both times they only stopped for a matter of weeks. After that it was less obvious, but I heard them talking behind my back, and Conor glares at me in classes and at break times.
I'm considering telling someone again. But I don't want to look... Pathetic?
Not being able to deal with things myself.
TheMatrix
December 20th, 2010, 02:17 AM
one other thing you could try doing is confronting them sometime. i know that sounds stupid, but it'll have to happen, one way or another. but don't hurt yourself. if the 'meeting' heats up, leave. or try to have a meeting with them, yourself, and those other two(conner&calum).
perhaps it's none of my buisness, but i wonder what their motivation to hurt you is.
tunnerrocks
December 21st, 2010, 12:36 AM
well bullys want attention so get them from their crowd and say hey this isn't cool or always turn bullys against each other...oh sweet revenge.
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