Hey I just kinda want some advice here

[LonelyPirateatSea]

hmm well i've cut for several months now but i do it much more than i use to. most of it stems from my panic attacks and social anxiety and i just kinda feel suckee lately n down. i do see a therapist for the panic attacks about once a week but he has no clue about the cutting. i can't say i wana stop cutting but i really wana tell my friend about it and just tell her everything i've been feeling. I was wonderin whats the best way to tell her like should i just have her over and tell her or maybe go with her to dinner first then talk to her? she knows about my panic attacks and therapy btw. sorry if this is an odd question

[pretty boi]

i think you should just take her out to dinner and tell her in a very public place because girls are crazy lol

[Fiction]

It isn't an odd question. Try and find a situation where the two of you are alone and have plenty of time to talk. Any situation like that would be the best for telling her that. If you find it hard to talk about it in real life you could try emailing or texting her.
I think you should tell your therapist about your cutting, he will be able to help you alot.
Good luck :)

[LonelyPirateatSea]

ok thank you very much i definatly want to talk to her in person. what would be a good place where we would be alone cuz idk how private it would be at either of our houses. thank you so much again

[Fiction]

Invite her out? To a park? To town? Anywhere. Even if you are around other people, if you don't them generally they won't listen in, and if they do... it's not like it matters if they don't know you really.

[LonelyPirateatSea]

ok thank you very much!!!

[Fiction]

No problem. :) You can pm me anytime if you need anymore help.

[Mikey_bishop]

hey dude, if you are already seeing a therapist, that should be the person to tell. If you cut because of the anxiety and stuff, and you see the therapist to help with that, then it must not be working well if you still feel that way. You should tell them so they can change things up.

Hope you get whatever help you need man.