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Skippy4118
December 13th, 2010, 04:24 PM
I like this girl and someone told her. Now she won't listen to let me explain! I really am fine with just being friends. She won't let me tell her that! Any advice?

Fact
December 13th, 2010, 04:30 PM
Persevere with her! Assert your want to be friends and maybe she'll take notice. If not, then you can't force her to listen and you may just need to leave her to her own devices, as awkward and potentially hurtful it could be.

xgeekyrocksx
December 14th, 2010, 11:42 AM
tell her that you want to just be friends!! lots!!! show her you care, put stuff in her locker... but not in a lovey way... be kind, and be a friend when you know she needs you, but dont ignore her when she tells you to go away.. just back off a bit, and she'll miss you being there :hippy: peaceful friendly love, and you'll be okay xxx

Harley Quinn
December 14th, 2010, 11:46 AM
All I can really say is, leave it and move on. She'll realise that you only want to be her friend and that it's okay for you to be that, when you aren't around her. If that doesn't work, try passing her a note (if you have any classes together) and write what she won't listen to there and see if she reads it or not. Best thing to do is go do your own thing and let her do hers and so forth.

Daniel_
December 14th, 2010, 03:17 PM
Persevere with her! Assert your want to be friends and maybe she'll take notice. If not, then you can't force her to listen and you may just need to leave her to her own devices, as awkward and potentially hurtful it could be.

... As good of advice that may be, I'm not sure how walking up to her and saying "Hey, we're going to be friends. Get it? got it?", would go.

But just try and get her alone and talk to her, if she absolutely refuses to speak with you, talk with one of her friends and see if (s)he will tell her for you.

Shenron
December 14th, 2010, 03:30 PM
Assert your feelings jeff-fa-fa...(ok, corny Jeff Dunham quote)

Give it a little bit and then try to talk to her. Or, you could write a note and put it in her locker. Tell her you are ok with just being friends in your note. Taking friendship to the level of love can take its toll on the friendship, I know you didn't mean for the word to get out, but now that it has, you have to make the best of it. Like I said, just wait a while and then try to talk to her.

All I can really say is, leave it and move on. She'll realise that you only want to be her friend and that it's okay for you to be that, when you aren't around her. If that doesn't work, try passing her a note (if you have any classes together) and write what she won't listen to there and see if she reads it or not. Best thing to do is go do your own thing and let her do hers and so forth.
I really did not see this before I posted, but it seems that we think alike eh? Well, now you have two people saying the same thing :) Good luck!

Skippy4118
December 18th, 2010, 08:47 AM
Ok thanks everyone

OhMightyLion
December 23rd, 2010, 04:35 PM
If she won't listen to your explanaition she's not worth it..it's as simple as that. Why would you want to be with someone who avoides you...?

rextoystory
December 23rd, 2010, 09:16 PM
Give her a little time, girls sometimes need it. (Maybe a couple of days or.. a week or two)
After that, keep trying :D

Good luck!