so shy - question for girls

[Tinybutfeisty]

so I just turned 13 early this month, and ive read some posts on here about girls with there boyfriends and stuff. my question is, for me the idea of a boy seeing me naked and stuff is soo weird/scary. i feel so shy shy about my body still and i just cant imagine it. is that just because im still going thru puberty? or is it soemthing wrong with me?

[Tristin.]

i know you have asked this to the girls, but i think i could help.

you dont have to let him see you naked, your only 13, dont forget that. things are just starting to take off, just give it time, your confidence in your body will grow.

you choose when to let somebody see you naked, never feel pressudred into it, just take your time :)

hope this helped :)

[Harley Quinn]

One: if you read the rules you would know that even if you can help, boys cannot post in this section. So don't do it again, your post will automatically be deleted, most likely by me.

Two: seeing as it's a general question, I will move this to questions for boys and girls.

[msbrooklyn]

i agree with tristin your just 13 you dont have to jump into anything until your ready. and if you want to self confidence i think it helps greatly to stand naked in front of a mirror once a day and say something that you love about your body. try to say something new everyday, before long you just love all of you!

[Fact]

so I just turned 13 early this month, and ive read some posts on here about girls with there boyfriends and stuff. my question is, for me the idea of a boy seeing me naked and stuff is soo weird/scary. i feel so shy shy about my body still and i just cant imagine it. is that just because im still going thru puberty? or is it soemthing wrong with me?

You're 13! You shouldn't be showing your body anyway IMO.

I think it's quite a weird concept for anyone - someone else seeing them naked, so I wouldn't worry about it, there's nothing wrong with you at all. Your body is still developing, so naturally you're going to be conscious of the changes.
Don't worry about it! :P

[The Dark Lord]

You're 13! You shouldn't be showing your body anyway IMO.


This.

[Fiction]

When i was 13, the thought to me was scary as hell too. I wouldn't worry about it, your confidence will come. You may be a little nervous about being naked in front of a guy the first time, just as I was but after that it won't bother you too much. :)
Don't worry it's perfectly normal to be a little self concious.

[inthend]

Its all in the mentality. My gf had the same problem when we started dating.

Just realize that if a guy is into you he already likes what he sees when you have clothes on so there is no reason that he wouldn't like you without them on. He will already think your beautiful if he is in to you so there's nothing to worry about.

as for the nerves, think of it more as you turning him on rather than him looking at you naked, don't get all nervous, turn that adrenaline into a rush and the whole situation is more exciting.

hope that helps?

[girl555]

feel positive about ur body. look at urself naked more and more and u will get used to it and accept it. u look really pretty to me.