Need Help

[olYmPic]

Ok this is Depressing its no-where near as bad some of the other cases here but it annoys me.

In year 5 i met a friend and started hanging around him n stuff. The the next year i met 3 new friends they didn't like the friend i met in year 5. (He's Immature) and i started hanging around the 3 new friends and they payed out the guy i met in year 5 (I didn't personally tease him) then came Highschool and we all split-up and we to different schools the guy in year 5 went to my highschool and hes my best friend and next year, one of the guys is coming next year and i have to dump 1 of them they just dont get along like a dog and a mouse im stuck!

It's depressing for me cause i will feel real bad about leaving 1 of them

[weber]

I quite agree with Anthony, you can’t just dispose a person like that… but if you really care for the friendship of them both you have to be friends with them both, explain them that whatever is in between them both, it’s their problem and not yours and that you’re not gonna be in the middle of it. Besides time has passed maybe the other guys has changed and would get alone with your “best friend” try that first. If not (as I think you might be thinking as you read this) you have to question yourself about the friendship with them both, with whom you’re most comfortable, who can you really trust, who would be there to support you when you are having a bad time, and all those questions that really matters on a friendship, and then decide which of them fulfills most or all of those things (this is kind of bitchy btw, I personally would not do this, but everyone is unique on the way they act and think).
Hope I was helpful in a way.

[olYmPic]

No U 2 Misunderstood i never treated the guy in year 5 like crap i met new friends and got dragged away he met other friends too and got dragged away I didn't say one a nasty word to the guy in year 5

[mRojas2000]

Just the fact of leaving him makes you a crappy friend... you can still be friends of both, if they don't get along... just ignore them when they fight or something, and try not talking about the other one when you are with one of them... or maybe they can give a try to each other...

[~Cookie~]

People grow apart.And saddley best friends do to.You shouldn't feel bad unless you where rude to him.If you still want to be friends talk to him and tell him how you feel.

[Becca]

I say stick to the guy from year 5. If hes willing to hang out with you still then go for it. If you don't want to choose one over the other then hang out with all of them just at different tmes. Thats what I do. I have like 3 different groups of friends that are uncomfortable being around each other, so I hang with one group one day and the others another day. It works fine, I think it'll work for you too.

[olYmPic]

I say stick to the guy from year 5. If hes willing to hang out with you still then go for it. If you don't want to choose one over the other then hang out with all of them just at different tmes. Thats what I do. I have like 3 different groups of friends that are uncomfortable being around each other, so I hang with one group one day and the others another day. It works fine, I think it'll work for you too.

The guy coming next year dosnt know anyone else