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The Madman
December 12th, 2010, 01:59 PM
Dum dum da dum.
No im not getting married, before you ask.
I just wanted to know if you guys have a boy/girlfriend who you intend to marry, be it a month, a year or ten?
Kelsey123
December 12th, 2010, 02:08 PM
My bf and I plan to marry in 2012 or 2013 :D
Rutherford The Brave
December 12th, 2010, 03:41 PM
Nope, I had one, but the bitch broke my heart.
Jenna.
December 12th, 2010, 05:15 PM
Yes, I do. My boyfriend and I have talked about this many times and we want to get married after we both finish college. He's being very mysterious with exactly when he wants to ask though. He wants to surprise me. (: So I'm guessing at some point in our early to mid 20's.
Shenron
December 12th, 2010, 05:17 PM
Twice now I have loved to the point of planning marrige, and ven discussing it, but both times my heart has been shattered into a million pieces, I doubt I will ever find them all...
Jess
December 12th, 2010, 05:21 PM
even if I get a bf.......I will never marry
Fact
December 12th, 2010, 05:30 PM
I'd like to marry my boyfriend, but realistically I don't know if it'd materialise.
Sage
December 12th, 2010, 05:49 PM
I never want to get married. Ever.
Jess
December 12th, 2010, 06:13 PM
I never want to get married. Ever.
exactly what I would have said...
The Dark Lord
December 13th, 2010, 01:07 PM
Twice now I have loved to the point of planning marrige, and ven discussing it, but both times my heart has been shattered into a million pieces, I doubt I will ever find them all...
presumably because you are a teenage and not ready for marriage
Yes, I do. My boyfriend and I have talked about this many times and we want to get married after we both finish college. He's being very mysterious with exactly when he wants to ask though. He wants to surprise me. (: So I'm guessing at some point in our early to mid 20's.
that's providing your still together in 10years time
Personally, I don't see the point in marriage, if you love someone why would you need a document confirming you do? For me it screams insecurity
Syvelocin
December 13th, 2010, 01:25 PM
Yes. :P I've known him for years, been engaged since May and getting married next month.
Harley Quinn
December 13th, 2010, 01:35 PM
Yes, and whenever I suppose o.o :P
Nevermore
December 13th, 2010, 02:30 PM
I would love to marry. I dream of it. However I feel as if that day will never come. I just feel like no one would want to live with a psycho like myself. They might say they will, but I don't know if I ever will. I'm afraid of marraige because my parents relationship isn't the best. They constantly fight. However I think I might be willing to take that chance. I mean I really want to. I know that's wayyy far off into the future, but a girl can dream can't she? :)
Azunite
December 13th, 2010, 02:49 PM
Since I don't think I'll ever have a gf, I don't think Il marry
Fact
December 13th, 2010, 03:03 PM
Personally, I don't see the point in marriage, if you love someone why would you need a document confirming you do? For me it screams insecurity
Unless of course you're religious.
Also, there are a lot of legal implications that go hand and hand with marriage to do with property and rights.
The Madman
December 13th, 2010, 03:09 PM
My gf and me have spoken about getting married lots of times lol. Makes me slightly scare but big deal.
She wants to be married by 25 ( thanks for putting a time limit Celina ) but proposed by at least 23 ( again, thanks... )
The Dark Lord
December 13th, 2010, 03:38 PM
Unless of course you're religious.
Also, there are a lot of legal implications that go hand and hand with marriage to do with property and rights.
I'm not religious so I don't see the point in that aspect, but like you said that's the only point to getting married. Legally, it's less complicated spliting up if your not married and although there is a marriage tax cut, £3 a week is really worth it
Syvelocin
December 13th, 2010, 10:02 PM
I'm not Christian and I'm not having a religious marriage because the only people who could do it are in California... but really, some people just like an official thing. A step after dating, commitment. My parents haven't gotten married and they've been engaged for years. I guess it's right for some people but some are fine without it.
Jenna.
December 14th, 2010, 09:02 PM
that's providing your still together in 10years time
Personally, I don't see the point in marriage, if you love someone why would you need a document confirming you do? For me it screams insecurity
Lol, I knew someone would say that. You're right, we don't know anything for sure. But when we've already sat down & talked about when we want to get engaged, I have a decent idea of what's going to happen.
I don't think marriage screams insecurity..it does depend on the marriage, obviously, because in some cases it does. However some people want to go a step above simply being "boyfriend/girlfriend" for the rest of their lives. Just a thought.
notactive
December 14th, 2010, 09:24 PM
Yes, got engaged a few weeks back, no romantic proposal or anything just a mutual agreement between the both of us that in the future we will get married. We both have issues with marriage and I kind of agree with The Dark Lord that if you love each other you shouldn't need documentation to prove it but we are doing it our way. Just two people wanting to express our love. I know I'm not making a lot of sense and I may seem a hypocrite. Either way me and L are going to be together in the future, married or not. =)
Andrew0017
December 16th, 2010, 02:45 PM
Yes, I do. My boyfriend and I have talked about this many times and we want to get married after we both finish college. He's being very mysterious with exactly when he wants to ask though. He wants to surprise me. (: So I'm guessing at some point in our early to mid 20's.
She said it perfectly. :) I do plan on it being a surprise and I can't wait.
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