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Fiction
December 12th, 2010, 12:51 PM
Ok so basically, there's these people i've known for years. my mum knows her mum, I'm in the same year as her and my sister is in the same year as my little sister.
We've never got on but it's all kind of been unsaid. Just the odd eye-rolling when I say something and the odd bitchy comment.
Same has happened with my mum and her mum. My mum was talking about me being in a band and her mum said "yes well i'm glad my daughter isn't like that" and she's blanked my mum aswell. Last night my mum went to a christmas party that she was attending and my mum went to go and talk to her and her oldest daughter. They started slagging off my little sister. I mean seriously my YOUNGER sister. I mean ffs she's younger than both of them how fucking immature. She then started telling all the other parents of kids at my school how terrible one of my mum's friends was, at the cost of my mum. I just think this is fucking immature tbh. And i seriously don't know how i'm going to be able to treat the girl as normal at school. I have a feeling i'm going to say something I regret to her at one point and end up in trouble :/

The Madman
December 12th, 2010, 02:06 PM
I think you need to tell your mum to go round to her house with you and your little sister ( well maybe not ) and confront them, ask them what their problem is and why are they being so negative. Try talking to the girl on her own and trying asking her ( VERY VERY NICELY, even if you hate it ) to ask her mum to stop it.

If nothing like that works just ignore them, if you and your family have a good honest reputation then you have nothing to worry about, people will recognise you are good people and them as annoying neighbours.

The best two options is what I just said really.

Hope i helped, rep is appreciated

Fiction
December 12th, 2010, 02:12 PM
My mum said she's just going to try and avoid getting into conversations with them in case she says something she is going to regret. My mum can do that though, I have to go to school with her. if she said anything about my little sister, I wouldn't be able to just let it go.

Shenron
December 12th, 2010, 02:22 PM
Family is important to me as well, I know if someone said something about my mom, I wouldn't be able to prevent the ass beating that would ensue.

I would talk to the girl and find out why she is being such a bitch...

The Madman
December 12th, 2010, 02:26 PM
I agree with Chris.

closed
December 12th, 2010, 03:10 PM
You should inform you mother about it. This fight is about her, but it has something to do with you. You will probably get involved by force anyway. Try to speak to everyone gently. Try manipulting the information out of them. After all, just screaming and crying won't help. You know where to find me if you need to get some help :)

Fiction
December 12th, 2010, 04:11 PM
My mum already knows about it all for obvious reasons. She told me just to ignore it and to forgive and forget. She might be able to do that but I can't... :/