View Full Version : Is this normal for a straight guy?
paranoid1
December 12th, 2010, 09:22 AM
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Philleeep
December 12th, 2010, 09:38 AM
neither. just curious and open about who you are. what goes on in your sleep isn't what you can control and no not really you are just good friends and where you sleep doesnt matter unless you pester too sleep together then ur gay or gi
Brittany123
December 12th, 2010, 11:54 AM
Ya it is and it doesn't make you gay or bisexual unless you are attractedd to the same sex. It doesn't even make you bicurious you are only bicurious if you feel slightly attractd to the same sex. Guys sometimes do random stuff doesn't make them gay.
Tristin.
December 12th, 2010, 04:01 PM
you are nothing more than curious, some guys have don sooo much more and they are only curious, dont let it worry you.
sleeping in the same bed=normal
talking about masturbation=normal
wanting to do it together=curious
waking up in the morning=we all move in our sleep, its nothing to get worried about, you cant do anyhting about that
dont let it worry you, its compleatly normal!!!!
Lights
December 12th, 2010, 04:40 PM
You've said that you move away as soon as you're aware of the closeness, and that it worries you. I think that pretty much concludes that you are not interested by guys sexually, but you're perhaps a little curious which almost all boys are in their teenage years.
SwimTech
December 12th, 2010, 05:03 PM
It's completely normal to talk about masturbation with friends, because everyone does it. And now, it does not make you gay at all. Its a ton of fun to masturbate together. Why should it matter what you guys sleep in. I always sleep in boxers except when i stay in a hotel with a friends family or at a friends house out of respect for the family. If it was just us, we wouldnt care. And you cant control how you sleep some people move around alot.
Dimitri
December 12th, 2010, 08:54 PM
yeah dude it's normal
Alexithymia
December 12th, 2010, 09:49 PM
Completely normal. Even if you want to do it together, you could just be curious about how it is. Even if you enjoy doing it together, it doesn't make you gay or bi, you are merely curious.
Sleeping together in only boxers may sound weird, but most guys only sleep in their boxers and most close non-homophobic friends sleep close together. Hell, before I came out to my best friend, we shared everything. Now he's a bit more cautious :(
The whole waking up and cuddling around each other is completely normal. I wouldn't even think you were bi if you stayed there and didn't move. The only thing that makes you gay (or bi) is if you have an attraction to guys. Not what you do, but why you do it. If you're doing it because you enjoy it (to the extent where you enjoy it. And if you're gay and had this experience [or thought of it] you'll know what I'm talking about) then you're probably leaning curious/bi or bi/gay. Hope this helped! And didn't frighten you!
IAMWILL
December 12th, 2010, 09:55 PM
Don't worry, you're fine.
Heck, a lot of teenage guys wish they could be in your position.
I don't think something is gay unless you intend/want it to be. Otherwise id consider it awkward or innocent even. But what you're doing is fine, as long as you're both comfortable with it.
Voodoo
December 12th, 2010, 10:05 PM
No, it doesn't if you were to have sexual intercourse then it could be or you may be just experiancing some teenage hormones, it is normal for some teens to have sex with a boy and or girl due to your hormone. But hey you never know you could be bi sexual.
ccrunner
December 13th, 2010, 10:40 AM
NOT AT ALL it is normal to talk about these things and want to act them out even if u did you would be straight if you wanna be. About the sleeping thing, it Is the body's natural response to "cuddle" with something if it is there
hjt6re
December 13th, 2010, 11:30 AM
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SamB
December 13th, 2010, 11:46 AM
It doesn't make you gay or bi it just means that during the night you rolled next to each other
Punannannan
December 17th, 2010, 05:48 PM
I guess your just curious, and want to experiment that's fine.
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