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nickisadinosaur
December 11th, 2010, 12:57 AM
So, um, i was in the hospital for months like three years ago after attempting suicide, and i havent cut sence then...until today. I feel like crap, i told myself i'd never ever do it again, and, i dont evan kno. I really thought i was better. Help? ]:

Alexithymia
December 11th, 2010, 03:46 AM
Well, for a general idea, just hide your "tools" and try and distract yourself whenever you feel the urge. But if I had a more specific idea, like what caused it, we might be able to help you more.

Harley Quinn
December 11th, 2010, 03:56 AM
So, um, i was in the hospital for months like three years ago after attempting suicide, and i havent cut sence then...until today. I feel like crap, i told myself i'd never ever do it again, and, i dont evan kno. I really thought i was better. Help? ]:

Keep telling yourself you don't need it, because you really don't. No matter what you feel and no matter what's happened/happening you shouldn't harm yourself. There are ALWAYS alternatives, and you just have to find them. If you feel like crap, you have to find out why and find the solution, because if you don't you're going to feel like shit for a long loooong time. You have to tell yourself that you're better, and believe it if you're going to get better.

Fiction
December 11th, 2010, 07:07 AM
Just because you slipped up once does not mean you can't be better. You don't fail when you slip up, it's when you don't pick yourself back up. You cut, ok it's over now, nothing you can do. Forget about it. You did so well not to do it for 3 years and you can not do it for even longer now. Good luck.

Mike321
December 11th, 2010, 01:39 PM
3 years is really good, we've all had slip ups, dont let it get to you.
You can't change what happened today but you dont need to it, keep that thought in your mind, and every time you feel like doing it, tell yourself that you really don't need to cut.
You can get to another 3 years and more

Love.Hate
December 11th, 2010, 01:42 PM
Yes its not a good thing, but you did so well not doing it for all that time.
But it was one slip up, you can make all that time back!
And so much more. Believe in yourself because you can do this!
When you want to cut find other things to do, dont give in. You are a strong person and i believe in you :)
Good luck and im always here if you need to talk xx

whereismymind
December 11th, 2010, 03:12 PM
Its human nature to make mistakes.
Don't keep your mind in the past look only to the future.
Don't give in, stay strong.
Feel free to message me if you need to talk :)

nickisadinosaur
December 11th, 2010, 10:11 PM
Youre all great. [:
Thank you so much. <3

Mikey_bishop
December 15th, 2010, 08:57 PM
I'm a little late on this one, so I hope you havent had any other cutting incidents. What I will say though is 3 years is awesome! You should be proud of that. As for the recent thing, everyone "falls down" sometiems (like other ppl here have said) but you dont have to stay down. I guess its possible you were under more than normal stress or something major was going on at the time. You should probably just step back and take a look at what was going on at the time, and see what was different.

Are you a social person? The more you hang around with ppl, the less you'll be able to cut! The big thing is dont beat yourself up over the slip up dude.