Feel like a jerk :P

[tomboysk8r1314]

So today i broke up with my boyfriend of a month and two weeks. My reason? I just dont have strong feelings for him anymore and i kinda crave being single again. So today during lunch hour i took him outside onto the track and told him how i felt and that i hoped we could still be friends because he was a cool guy. He said ok then walked off. I felt like a totall doucher....I still feel bad about it but it feels great to be single again.

I just need some advice on how to stop feeling like a jerk wad and how to keep our broken relationship stay as a friendship.

Thanks

[Sogeking]

It happened it happened, just let it go. If that was his only responce, then odds are he felt the same way and didn't have the courage to break up with you sooner and I think he would be happy to be just friends.

[Vkid]

u were only together six weeks, just give him some space but be pleasant to him....he'll get over it and so will u

sounds like the way u rke up with him was good, but if there wasn't any lead up to that he might have felt like it came out of nowhere so u shud give him an opportunity to clear things up if he wants it

[Harley Quinn]

So today i broke up with my boyfriend of a month and two weeks. My reason? I just dont have strong feelings for him anymore and i kinda crave being single again. So today during lunch hour i took him outside onto the track and told him how i felt and that i hoped we could still be friends because he was a cool guy. He said ok then walked off. I felt like a totall doucher....I still feel bad about it but it feels great to be single again.

I just need some advice on how to stop feeling like a jerk wad and how to keep our broken relationship stay as a friendship.

Thanks

If you don't have feelings for him, then it isn't your fault. I'm sure that he's glad you have actually told him rather then dragging on a lie, which would hurt more. To stop feeling like a jerk, stop thinking about what you did, even if that is hard, it's possible and that's what you have to do. As for remaining friends, let him come around, he's going to be hurt for awhile, but he should be okay. Try talking to him normally and see how that goes, and whether he still wants to remain friends with you.

[Fiction]

Basically what Bhan said, people can fall in and out of love, and it isn't there fault. I'm sure you've heard the phrase "you can't help who you fall for". Well it works both ways. You've been less of a jerk by telling him how you feel early on than by keeping it a secret. He will get over it don't worry.

[whereismymind]

As everyone has said you did the right thing rather than keeping it to yourself. He'll forgive you he won't hate you for saying how you feel. Trust me things like this happen life goes on.

[Daniel_]

You let him down easily, in person, and alone. You did nothing wrong.

Sure hes gonna tale it hard for a while, but he'll get over it. Just try and forget about it, he is fine.

[tomboysk8r1314]

Thanks guys...i feel a little better about it now. He still sits with me at lunch and stuff like we used to when we were just friends and sitll talks to me so i guess he doesnt hate me.

[hotandgay]

haha im in that situation but im the one who got broken up with...but it seems like he diddnt care...all you can do is just talk to him and dont get weird because me and my ex might continue to be friends but he really dont know yet