Virginity and You. :)

[Errr]

So, When was your guys first time? What age? Any other info would be nice, if you want. See, I know a lot of people my age (15) who have had sex, and others who would in a heartbeat. As for me, I could anytime I wanted, BUT I dont think I feel right, I mean I personally think you should be a virgin untill your at least 16. I don't judge, thats just MY persnal preference. Every other guy is like "id hit that" and think Im CRAZY for not having sex when I could. Idk, I think its something that should be special, not just fucking to fuck for your first time with random people. Is that weird for a guy my age? hmm?

[Scarface]

I agree with you, I think that your first time should be with someone meaningful that you know will be there the next morning. As you said a "special" experience for both. I don't disrespect the ones that did it at a young age, because when I was younger and I had sex for the first time, he ended up leaving me in the end. Making me re-think everything. Sex shouldn't be something to "give away" per-say, but to be shared with someone you love. Agreed with you totally.

[Ender]

I agree with Ronnie... I kinda wish I had waited till my most recent experience, it probably would have made it much better. Sure, we broke up in the end. But, he was still the only person out of those i've slept with that I have truly loved and I know he loved me back, may not have been the same way, but still love.

But yeah, people should wait. Sex isnt worth it unless its with someone you really love.

[Syvelocin]

Umm.. well.. depending on your definition of "first time." :/

I was fifteen when I first did it with a guy. I loved him, I did. I just love my fiancé much more. No regrets

I hate sex though. I'm asexual.

However, I was fourteen when I lost my virginity.

[Malicious Muffin]

I was 14 my first time, and it was with no one special. In my opinion it was just flesh rather than plastic. I don't really count it as a proper first time as it was a sort of one night stand type of thing. Guess who feels like a slut now.

[Jenna.]

I completely agree with you. I wish more people, especially guys this age, had your mindset when it comes to sex. You remind me of my boyfriend...he also believes that sex is very special and should be saved for someone that you truly love and that you're in a serious relationship with instead of just sleeping around with whomever. As for me? I had actually just turned 16 when we decided to have sex. (It was like a week after my birthday haha.) He was 16 too, since he's just 6 months older than me.
I don't regret it one bit. We've been together for 2 years and we want to stay together (neither one is going away for college) so I definitely feel like I made the right choice.

[Kelsey123]

I lost my virginity at 18 (i'm now 19). I believe that sex should only be for those who can care for a child. So 16 (because that is the youngest a person can get a regular job). Someone who would be stuck depending on someone else (like a parent or such) if they got pregnant (which is not fair) should not be having sex...I also believe sex should be meaningful and about love.

[Syvelocin]

^ What if the girl in question can't get pregnant? And the incident was also out of love as well.

[Rutherford The Brave]

I lost my virginity at twelve, I never had any regrets about it.

[Kelsey123]

^ What if the girl in question can't get pregnant? And the incident was also out of love as well.

My opinion still stands. I'm guessing most girls at that age are unaware if they are unable to have children.

[MaeC]

Haven't lost it :yeah: agree with the abovee haha

[Syvelocin]

I knew I couldn't get pregnant when I first did it willingly :P

[Tristin.]

Still got my virginity :D i believe sex whoever it be with, if its your first time should be with somebody special, not any randomer who will say yes

[Kelsey123]

I knew I couldn't get pregnant when I first did it willingly :P

Still, that's not common. I think most at that age would be unaware. Just because you knew doesn't mean anything. You are just ONE person out of billions....

[Syvelocin]

Yeah, I know. I was just putting it out there.

[Sogeking]

Still got it and yes I agree with you

[Aves]

I haven't lost mine. And I don't plan on it until I'm in a committed relationship. My MINIMUM would be a one year relationship. Would I wait longer if one of us wasn't ready, of course.

[Syvelocin]

God, you guys are so lucky :/ I wish I could have even had control of when I lost my virginity. It's always very humiliating when I have a relationship, since it never was mine to give anyway :/

[Amnesiac]

My virginity and I are best friends. Every day I'm like "hey virginity... you're still there!" We're chill like that, ya see, me and virginity, forever alone together. We're like two halves of a sandwich, always together, but slowly being eaten away.

But seriously, I haven't lost mine. I can't say when it'll happen, but when it does I'm using a goddamn condom.

[Fiction]

I was 15 when I lost mine...

[notactive]

I was 18, completely regret it. It was a drunken one night stand that I wasn't entirely agreeing to. I started dating my boyfriend a few months later and by god I wish I had waited. My first time with him was much more meaningful.

[Jess]

I will never lose my...um virginity....never

[Andrew0017]

I agree. Too many people are just running around sleeping with everyone. I realize it's a matter of personal choice but I wish more people had values and didn't just throw their virginity away to the first person to acts interested. I was 16 when my girlfriend and I first had sex, and we're still together. Definitely try to wait for a nice, meaningful relationship, don't just have sex to have sex. It's sad that this is what our society is coming to.

[richboy]

i was thirteen it was an accident dnt lik talkin bout it...

[cuddlemuffin3]

virgin, waiting for that special someone to come my way!!

[richboy]

dat good find ur rite guy :)

[Mike321]

18 and still have it, gonna wait for the right person, I'm not gonna lose it just for the sake of it

[ShatteredWings]

God, you guys are so lucky :/ I wish I could have even had control of when I lost my virginity. It's always very humiliating when I have a relationship, since it never was mine to give anyway :/
I think i see where you're going with this statement.
That doesn't qualify as loosing it, you didn't have any choice in the matter.

[SilentlyScreaming]

My virginity and I are best friends. Every day I'm like "hey virginity... you're still there!" We're chill like that, ya see, me and virginity, forever alone together. We're like two halves of a sandwich, always together, but slowly being eaten away.

But seriously, I haven't lost mine. I can't say when it'll happen, but when it does I'm using a goddamn condom.

You're awesome!

[Amnesiac]

You're awesome!

That explains my username :rolleyes:

[BigG]

So, When was your guys first time? What age? Any other info would be nice, if you want. See, I know a lot of people my age (15) who have had sex, and others who would in a heartbeat. As for me, I could anytime I wanted, BUT I dont think I feel right, I mean I personally think you should be a virgin untill your at least 16. I don't judge, thats just MY persnal preference. Every other guy is like "id hit that" and think Im CRAZY for not having sex when I could. Idk, I think its something that should be special, not just fucking to fuck for your first time with random people. Is that weird for a guy my age? hmm? I lost my virginity when I was 12 most people say wait until your married I just say " Make sure you loose your virginity to someone u truly care about. Also when you do it for the first time do it with confidence it'll make the experience so much better.

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[drum major]

i want to have sex but i cant even get a girl to like me and for me to like them back

[BHS10]

You're virginity is sacred. I am of the opinion that you shouldn't go and have the sex just to do it. It can put an emotional spin on the rest of your relationships that you weren't ready for.

I'll give it to you like this. I dated this girl for about a year in 9th-10th grade, and then we eventually moved on to more than just kissing. Never lost my virginity or anything, but I did do some things.

Now, I am with a girl that I actually enjoy being around and am not just with her because I want a girlfriend. She really could be my life partner. She is very grounded in her beliefs, and would never think about losing her virginity before marriage. I've been talking/dating her for about 4 months now, and I'm completely okay with waiting until/if we get married. I'm a junior in high school, and I know what love feels like. That's an amazing feeling in itself. Sex can wait.

[AutumnDae]

I'm a virgin. :)

I'm all about thinking about the future, really. I don't think you can put a "You must wait X amount of time before you have sex." For some, that may be 3 years, for others, the right time may be after a week of dating, or no time at all.

I stop and think a lot of times, and say to myself, "When I think about this in my future, because I realize X and I probably won't be together forever. Am I going to regret taking my relationship to this level with them? Even if we break up, and I think about it, will I be unhappy that I did this?"

I'm 17 right now, and I don't plan on having sex for a while. It just isn't the right time for me. I have absolutely no problem saying no to guys, at all. I have boundaries, no problem. :P

Two of my friends lost their virginity to guys that they weren't dating at the time. One had dated him previously, and they were getting back together, unofficially. They split after that, and now they're once again together. They have a rocky relationship, but they really care about each other, and she's completely happy with it. My other friend had had a 'thing' with the guy in the fall, then dated someone else, but realized she still had feelings for him, so broke things off with her ex. She and this guy were talking, and were basically together when they had sex. They're dating now, and she doesn't regret it.

[carlitosway]

i'm 16 and i havent done it yet. but done other stuff.

[Exist]

I'm 18, and although a lot of pressure is tacitly forced to hurry up and loose it (more so because I'm a guy) I really don't mind. Of course, I don't want to wait to long, because then it can become a psychological barrier. Call me foolish, but I still have an idealised concept of romance stuck in my head. You know, where you date someone, get to really care for them, and then as a product of that affection sex occurs, because you want to express your feelings for that person. I don't really see the point in a one night stand, its just glorified masturbation, but if you care about them, I think sex has a lot more meaning to it.

[Limelight788]

I'm a seventeen year old virgin and proud of it. In the case I ever become heterosexual, my idea for sex is to wait until marriage with a person you are committed to and you can ensure that you have a future.

Many nasty things can come with pre-martial sex and I don't see the benefit outweighing the risk.

[restricted NA]

I believe you lose your virginity with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, don't give it up to any person. I kind of like being a virgin haha :)

[Magenta]

I never understand why twelve, thirteen, fourteen and fifteen year olds are having sex. I'm turning 16 in two weeks and though I think that that's a reasonable age to lose it, I'm in no rush. I'm not dating anyone and the one guy I do like is liked not because I want to have sex with him but because he's sweet and kind and looks after me when I need it. Is he going to be that special someone? I doubt it. Honestly, I'm one of those sex-after-marriage people... at least, that's my view on it now because I'm just not interested in sex. Period.

[Sogeking]

Please don't bump old threads.

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