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Brittany123
December 9th, 2010, 08:45 PM
I have a friend and she is bi-sexual. I have a crush on her but, I don't know if she feels the same way. I am not that close to her so I can't just ask her and we don't spend alot of time together.

At a halloween party at her house my friends and I played truth or dare (of course) and we got dared to make-out (being the only gay/bi girls there) we did, and then at the sleepover me and her fooled around a little.

I am so confused though because a month or so later I was at ther house and her friend and brother were there too. we played truth or dare (AGAIN) and her brother dared us to make out as she groped me (eww her brother is a creep) but then her friend asked her during truth "would you ever go out with her" she said IDK, I was asked that earlier and said yes so of course I feel like she is just using me because later she fooled around again. I don't know what to do especially since we haven't really talked since then.

When I see her in the halls I have to look away even because I start to blush:wub:... UGH

So I was think sometime in the second semester to start to talk to her more then when it comes time ask her to go to rainbow prom with me. What's your opinion...

I don't really want to wait that long though.

PoseidonX43
December 9th, 2010, 10:26 PM
I have a friend and she is bi-sexual. I have a crush on her but, I don't know if she feels the same way. I am not that close to her so I can't just ask her and we don't spend alot of time together.

At a halloween party at her house my friends and I played truth or dare (of course) and we got dared to make-out (being the only gay/bi girls there) we did, and then at the sleepover me and her fooled around a little.

I am so confused though because a month or so later I was at ther house and her friend and brother were there too. we played truth or dare (AGAIN) and her brother dared us to make out as she groped me (eww her brother is a creep) but then her friend asked her during truth "would you ever go out with her" she said IDK, I was asked that earlier and said yes so of course I feel like she is just using me because later she fooled around again. I don't know what to do especially since we haven't really talked since then.

When I see her in the halls I have to look away even because I start to blush:wub:... UGH

So I was think sometime in the second semester to start to talk to her more then when it comes time ask her to go to rainbow prom with me. What's your opinion...

I don't really want to wait that long though.

if u like her then go for it, try hiting on her a little and see if she hits back ;)

Harley Quinn
December 10th, 2010, 05:15 AM
If you have her in the same classes, try sending her a note or something. You can never know if someone likes you unless you ask them, or they tell you. If you don't spead a lot of time with each other, try to, try getting a better friendship and go from there. If you did do truth or dare and it did turn out like that then i don't see why she wouldn't like you. Try to get her alone somehow and see what happens, you don't know if she doesn't like you, or she was only doing it because she was dared.

IAMWILL
December 12th, 2010, 10:00 PM
I'm pretty sure she likes you, considering youve made out with her twice. She said IDK to the question because she's probably nervous about everyone knowing she is bisexual, I wouldn't blame her.
Just try Facebook or AIM or anything like that to get in touch with her, and start with small talk. As you get more comfortable with each other, you can expand the conversations. Good luck!