should i have???

[dyl_123]

hey just wondering because i am new here and read a bit of the posts but a question... my brother is 12 and hasn't started masturbating yet... and puberty still hasnt started...

well he was sort of hinting at sex the other day in the way of talking about it so i decided to talk to him about it... im 18 and he is 12.... we spoke about how to do it and how to masturbate... i asked him does his dick ever get hard because i sore him staring at mine when i was walking round the house and he said yeah sometimes... i told him that when this happens he shoul grab it and pull it back and forth... this is called masturbation... i know he was a little embarrassed at first but he warmed to the discussion.... he said he is going to tell me how he goes... if he still hasnt done it and isnt sure should i show him... get him to lie on the bedf and do it for him or do it myself on me...
also should i have told him about it i mean i dont want him to look silly at school when he doesnt no what it is???

[CBTurner]

Uh, I don't know, if he gets caught, he will probably blame it on you...

[dyl_123]

yeah but i can just say he asked

[SWMG]

You can advice him and all that but make sure he is descreet enough

[junkymcjunkpants]

I would just show him if you guys are that close. I think you are doing an honnrable thing bc its awkward to talk about it with ur brother

[Stronger]

I wouldnt do it for him but anyway give advice would be the best way and most appropriate

[Brandon K]

you show him if he is ok with it

[SwimTech]

I would go for it...I never had a brother, and always wished I did for things like this, and if I ever had any other questions relating to puberty. As long as you teach him the importance of not over doing it, being discrete and only masturbating at appropriate times, and things along that nature. Glad to see that you two are close despite the large age difference

[Eagle1]

I would have told him, this is stuff he needs to know and it will save him that awkward conversation with your parents

[Vkid]

kind of sounds like ur pushing this topic, idk tread with caution....

[tyler007]

I think thats pretty cool of you to show him and be able to talk to him about sex stuff.
I think you should let him just play with himself and experiment by himself. If he asks more questions then answer them or maybe let him watch you, if your comfortable with that. But after that im not sure.....

[Jstr]

I would just show him if you guys are that close. I think you are doing an honnrable thing bc its awkward to talk about it with ur brother




completly agree

[CaliKiDD]

i showed my god bro when he was 13 but i showed him on the computer :)

[teenageapplelover]

I think thats pretty cool of you to show him and be able to talk to him about sex stuff.
I think you should let him just play with himself and experiment by himself. If he asks more questions then answer them or maybe let him watch you, if your comfortable with that. But after that im not sure.....

Listen to tyler. Sounds about right.
I wouldn't "show him," because there is a chance he could blame it on you and you could get in serious trouble with your parents.

[ccrunner]

I would ask him what he wants out of your options like doing it yourself in you or on him just feel him out and be on the same page

[RadioPlayer]

I would just let him figure it out by himself. If you figured it out by yourself, he can too. It would be really awkward if parents found out. What would your explanation be?

[teenageapplelover]

I would just let him figure it out by himself. If you figured it out by yourself, he can too. It would be really awkward if parents found out. What would your explanation be?

Exactly. "well mom I didn't want to be embarrassed when people found out he didn't know what jacking off was" would not go well with any mother.

[teenboi14]

U could do either way

[Justkidding94]

I would do it for him so he sees how it goes.

[Nilnoc]

If I were you, I would just instruct him, not show him or do it for him. IF the law gets involved somehow, you could get arretested and charged as a sexual predator.

[SamB]

I wouldn't do it on him, because it sounds like he has just started puberty and with his hormones he could think it is normal for brothers to jack each other off and he may say things to his friends and they may not be as understanding, but if he is ok with it you can show him what to do on yourself.

[Apollo.]

I've always wished I had a brother for stuff like this. I would show him if he is cool with it I wouldn't do it for him. Also let him know about being discreet and not just to do it anywhere:). And remember only if he is cool with it.

[brandon1997]

I Thank You Need Show him a Men Health Mag And it Will Tell Him How To Do It
Contact Me I Be happy to Talk

[Tyler1]

I think thats pretty cool of you to show him and be able to talk to him about sex stuff.
I think you should let him just play with himself and experiment by himself. If he asks more questions then answer them or maybe let him watch you, if your comfortable with that. But after that im not sure.....

I agree, do wht u both are comfortable with. Show him if he wants to watch you to learn how and he will quickly learn.