Zan0ra
December 9th, 2010, 01:29 PM
Hello, some of you may remember me from this site but I have a problem. No one can understand her (yet), she feels alone completely and it's getting to the point where the word suicide is becoming more and more common coming from her mouth.
My girlfriend has been in a massive depression for bout a year. It all began when she fell in love with this boy from her school, but got rid of it (probably thinking nothing of it) but then became trapped completely in emotion and pain. She has been crying herself to sleep most nights for the past year. Nothing anyone tells he goes into her mind. Nothing is raising her hopes.
He hates her, he treats her horribly. She doesn't mind, she loves him. Completely. And she can't get over him and believe me she's tried. She has to see him 5 days a week and is happy when he can finally not see him but if she doesn't see him longer then a day it begins to affect her mind in pain. Its hard to understand I know but I came here with hope to find someone who's in the same situation of being attached to someone so long no matter how horribly they treat them but unable to let go and if they can't see them then they fall apart.
I think she just needs to here words from someone who knows what its like and how to handle it. Some days, she doesn't mention him but I know he's on her mind but others she almost sounds as if she will do something stupid.
Please, can someone help? I wan't to see her get through this with a smile on her face. She says she doesn't need help but I'm certain if she met someone who knows that it's like then it will put her on a path to recovery.
Thanks in advance,
My girlfriend has been in a massive depression for bout a year. It all began when she fell in love with this boy from her school, but got rid of it (probably thinking nothing of it) but then became trapped completely in emotion and pain. She has been crying herself to sleep most nights for the past year. Nothing anyone tells he goes into her mind. Nothing is raising her hopes.
He hates her, he treats her horribly. She doesn't mind, she loves him. Completely. And she can't get over him and believe me she's tried. She has to see him 5 days a week and is happy when he can finally not see him but if she doesn't see him longer then a day it begins to affect her mind in pain. Its hard to understand I know but I came here with hope to find someone who's in the same situation of being attached to someone so long no matter how horribly they treat them but unable to let go and if they can't see them then they fall apart.
I think she just needs to here words from someone who knows what its like and how to handle it. Some days, she doesn't mention him but I know he's on her mind but others she almost sounds as if she will do something stupid.
Please, can someone help? I wan't to see her get through this with a smile on her face. She says she doesn't need help but I'm certain if she met someone who knows that it's like then it will put her on a path to recovery.
Thanks in advance,