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Chris_Likes_Drums
December 9th, 2010, 12:23 PM
I kinda need some advice, me and my best friend used to be soo close and now we dont talk much...

We used to talk non-stop for weeks by txting, but now if I ever text her I'll get one or two word answers if im lucky... I dont think I've done anything either.

Can anyone give me some advice how to become closer again? Cause I miss my best friend :(

Kahn
December 9th, 2010, 12:38 PM
The best advice I have for you is to ask her what is wrong. You may think you've done nothing wrong, but in her mind something bad might've happened between you. If you two were as close as you say you were than she should have no problem telling you what problem she has with you. All you need to do is ask. If she doesn't tell you, leave her alone, or if she gives you an attitude, just stay calm. Hope this helped.

Chris_Likes_Drums
December 9th, 2010, 12:43 PM
Thanks, I'll ask her that:)
She has a few issues and problems atm too, I tried to help with them but most the time she used to just ignore me with them :/

Cloud
December 9th, 2010, 07:46 PM
Maybe you caused the two of you to stop talking
maybe shes not responding because shes still upset about you ditching her
you said she has other problems and get annoyed when she doesnt tell you about them all
youd be lucky to get in her trust circle so soon after going AWOL on her

try earning your way back into her trust rather than just expecting it to be how it was