Don't you ever wish that you could just... turn someone gay?

[Lights]

I feel as if I'm coming to a point in my life where my sexuality has to come out. I want to just tell people at school casually that I choose boys over girls.
The only thing that stops me is that none of my family know. I don't have any guts whatsoever to say anything to them about it because I just don't know how they'd take it, and I suspect it would make things horribly awkward.

I'm into this one boy right now, who's straight, and I just get that feeling where I wish I could just turn him straight! I hate just looking at him and knowing it won't ever go anywhere as much as I would so like it to.

At times I feel like I'm in a cage that I can't get out of because I have to pretend I like girls to a lot of people. I avoid the discussion of girls (in that way) where possible, but sometimes I can't.

I guess it's just my hormones playing up on me like this making me feel so emotional about boys. I just wish the world was intended for boys to like boys and for girls to like girls.

-sigh-

[Tristin.]

i know how you feel, it was annoying for me before i came out, it felt odd having to pretend, but when i did come out, it was odd, my brother asked me and said yeah i was gay, he was really cool with it and helps me out and even asks me if i having boy troubles lol my parents dont care really, so i never had that problem, i told them they said ok and that was that. when i did tell people, they were ok, some haters but hey we all have haters

just tell people when you feel ready and if they dont accept it straight away then tough, this is you they arnt gonna change that. Some will be accepting immediatly, some it will take time, some may never accept it. you will get boys who you like "if only..." but you find that eventualy you will pick up a good gaydar and be able to find other gay guys pretty quickly :)

my main and most imporant point though, is BE 100% SURE AND READY BEFORE YOU TELL EVERYONE, there is nothing harder than taking back the line "im gay"

if you need any help, then just drop me a line :)

[Aless1225]

Yeah I do

[Syvelocin]

I would never want to turn people gay, as if we're flipping the circumstances (how some people wish to turn people of alternate sexualities, heterosexual). There's never a day that goes by where I don't wish certain people were gay, bi, whatever. I do have a friend who I've had a crush on in the past who has recently confided in me that she is bi-curious. I got a bit hopeful, honestly.

[nick]

^ I agree, its still much harder to be gay so I wouldnt wish it on anyone else.

[disassociation2016]

Sometimes it'd be nice to just be able to tell someone how you feel honestly.

[Alexithymia]

My selfless side would never let me be able to say "I wish you were gay..." My real side? Yep.

There's this one kid in my school. He's truly beautiful in every single perspective. He's cute, he's athletic, he's smart, he's kind, he's a tad bit shy. I could go on, but I don't think you want to hear about him. And I want him to be gay so badly, it sometimes hurts to go to school!

So, in a nutshell, yes. I do so badly.

[wtblife]

Well I constantly wish certain people were gay or bi, but not so much turn them. If someone isn't gay, don't get any ideas. Certain people might be cool with experimenting and that's a bit different, but I convinced this one straight guy to spend the night with me and I totally regret it. It made me wish he was gay even more and just made things more difficult along with screwing up our relationship a bit. Another problem is you have to keep it a secret and with close friends you like to share your experiences so it can be difficult not to bring up.

[Lights]

I didn't mean so much that I wanted to 'turn' them gay, just that I wish they were gay naturally.
At least some of the posters in this thread interpreted this thread the way I meant it to be. I just wish that I could find someone.

[Syvelocin]

I know what you meant, I was just clarifying hun :)

[Tristin.]

I didn't mean so much that I wanted to 'turn' them gay, just that I wish they were gay naturally.
At least some of the posters in this thread interpreted this thread the way I meant it to be. I just wish that I could find someone.

as i said, you will find someone, it just takes time :)

[Brittany123]

OMG I know exactly what you mean. I used to have a huge crush on a straigh tgirl but now I'm fine but you can't just turn people gay or bi (too bad) or else it would be a choice then (as sometimes I wish it was.) but just find a guy who likes you back, it will be a lot easier if you are out (I should know)

[SLiV]

I know I do.

Btw, I love to be gay. Well, so far. Haven't got far, though.

If I weren't gay, I'd just be a nerd without any girlfriends. Now that I am gay, I have some selfconscious justification.

[Tristin.]

i love being gay lol :P
im like the most open and comfortable person ever lol

some of the friends that are girls laugh at the fact i can get away wearing pink skinnies haha

[whereismymind]

Be open and honest be who you are I hope it works out maybe this guy isn't all he seems?

[danzama]

Might be me being lazy, but this thread is TL;DR

I feel as if I'm coming to a point in my life where my sexuality has to come out. I want to just tell people at school casually that I choose boys over girls.
The only thing that stops me is that none of my family know. I don't have any guts whatsoever to say anything to them about it because I just don't know how they'd take it, and I suspect it would make things horribly awkward.

I'm into this one boy right now, who's straight, and I just get that feeling where I wish I could just turn him straight! I hate just looking at him and knowing it won't ever go anywhere as much as I would so like it to.

At times I feel like I'm in a cage that I can't get out of because I have to pretend I like girls to a lot of people. I avoid the discussion of girls (in that way) where possible, but sometimes I can't.

I guess it's just my hormones playing up on me like this making me feel so emotional about boys. I just wish the world was intended for boys to like boys and for girls to like girls.

-sigh-

On topic of the OP, I know exactly how you feel, I'm practically in the same boat as you, I'm still in and the one person in real life I have come out to, I have a huge crush on.

My advice: find an online forum with people who rock, and confide in these people, about everything.

I don't know how old you are, so what worked for me may not work for you.

[josh93]

Yeah thats how i feel sometimes.

[danzama]

I don't know how much help I will be, but feel free to PM me with your concerns

[Emo_Boii]

Well I guess I am lucky cause I did get a guy who I really like to come out as bisexual :3 and if I can get one of the most popular boys in our school to come out, then I guess allot is possible XD Just try to get to know him a bit better :3

[Lights]

i love being gay lol :P
im like the most open and comfortable person ever lol

some of the friends that are girls laugh at the fact i can get away wearing pink skinnies haha

It's nice to read that some people are able to be who they are without fear of neglect and repulsion. :)

Be open and honest be who you are I hope it works out maybe this guy isn't all he seems?

I want to be who I am, but how can I be when it could completely change my life for the worst? You don't know how much I want to just say to the boy that I like him. I am slightly hinting it though, so he might work it out soon enough; not that that will change much for my situation.

[Voodoo]

Yep I do.

[Cryofthewolf]

I feel ya man. There are plenty of guys that I have been attracted to, and wished that they might be gay/bi. It was only because I was attracted to them though. I'm not sure if I want to have a relationship with a man yet. Would be hard to explain that to most of my friends and relatives. Father would disown me, if he ever found out. Heck, he might have disowned me by now anyways. x-D

I'm sure you will find somebody great someday. High school isn't about finding a spouse, and most people who get married after high school don't stick together anyways. Wait a bit, after the hormones stop raging and the drama subsides, and somebody will come along. :-)

[frankie97]

I know what you mean i would turn so many guys gay.......SO MANY!!!!

[Charleigh]

Ive wished I could turn someone straight
But I doubt it will ever happen lol.

[bhoyS]

yeah xx

[Velasquez970]

Hey I know how u fill it sucks at points just who knows any thing possible

[Jaye]

I was crushing on a friend of mine and I finally managed to steer a conversation around so that I could tell her I was bi. She was completely fine with that - but she said she was straight.

Took all my self control to not break down crying right there. I wished so much that she was bi or gay. *empathy*

[HelloWorld123456]

Hahahaha i f i could, i would turn all the straight guys gay and all the gay guys straight ... because I only like the straight ones .. :/

[MissPenguin]

I'm bi more toward girls, but I would never want to "turn" someone gay..it's something u need to discover for yourself and if it's right for you

[Apollo.]

Yessss:). Lol

[redmann]

I have like the same problem!
I am to the point were i think i would be comfortable telling my friends( already have told a few and beleive me it helps) and people at school.
my only issue is my family:-/ especially my bro who is in the marines. he like completely hates gay people. and my sis also. idk really why.

[smitty35]

I know how you feel!!! There is this guy that I know, he is so yummy and hot, but he is str8. I would be awesome to turn the person you really want to be with gay.

As to address your "coming out situation", I think that you should wait until after you graduate high school or college. It gives you the time to know exactly what/who you are. And if your town, family, and friends are hostile to gays, then you are in for it. Those are just a few reasons to wait.

There are some reasons to come out now, at this moment. If you do tell everyone now, the presure of hiding will disolve instantly. You can finally be happy as well. You can start your type of relationship that you desire. You can live you life as a free person after leting the world know what you really are!

My advice to you is to go with your heart and your gut feeling. Do what you think is right. Now all I can say is good luck, and best wishes! :-)

[grstl]

I feel like you and I feel for you!

If you bravely dare to celebrate who you really are openly, I will envy you and hope to be like you someday!

[AussieBiBoy]

Oh god, if I could get anyone I want to be gay my life would be amazing!

[SylvioUltima]

Not to be a smartass, but if everyone was gay, there would be no one.. xD

[Emiil]

Would be quite nice to be able to turn people gay indeed :$$$$

[Peace God]

Nawww....I like being lonely.

/sarcasm

[Skrate]

Sylvio hit it spot on.

Thats why i say everyone should be bisexual.

>:D